So I have this friend of a friend, and she's a definite 8 - but has the body of a 10. I've seen her out socially at clubs a couple of times before and she recently joined the gym I'm at, we've been once before as a trio (me, my friend, and this girl) and arranged to do so yesterday too.
She picked me up but then my friend backed out, so it was just us 2 going to the gym. I'm not a big guy by any means; I'm 6ft and only 10 and a half stone, so I stand out for the wrong reasons in this place.
Anyway, we split off to get changed and I just thought I'd let her do her own thing and act like I wasn't impressed by her and the fact that lots of ripped dudes were mentally undressing her. I went over to her when I'd finished and said "I'm going to go to the jacuzzi", she replied telling me she'd meet me in there.
I had my back towards her when she was walking out, so she just came and sat right beside me in the jacuzzi. In this new environment I could see out of my peripherals that the guys in here were just as tactless as those in the gym - totally checking her out. I thought I'd be the exception and said to her in a very dry way "could you have not made an effort to look nice? You're embarrassing me", to which she giggled.
I tried to display confident body language: arms out over the edge of the jacuzzi, my core not pointed towards her, and head casually wandering round as if I wasn't transfixed by her. During this time I noticed that she gradually became more open towards me, using gestures and actually facing me with her core. Consequently, I thought I'd try a kino. - You know those bubbles that come from the floor of the jacuzzi and you put your feet on them? Well she was on one of those, so I said to her "Are you always this selfish with things? Are you feeling generous enough to share?". I playfully bumped her out of the way with my behind, and a second later she reciprocated
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So we sat there with our bodies touching side-by-side and talked about times we'd seen each other out in clubs. Apparantly I was quite mean to her one night by telling her to "go home" after she got my name wrong. I apologised, said "(she) probably deserved it, but I'll make it up to (her)". We left the jacuzzi and went to get changed again.
On the journey back I commented on the number of people who were looking at her in the gym - "I don't know why they were looking at you when I was there like 3 feet away from you...", to which I got a giggle and a "Aww, you're being mean again, I thought you were going to be nice from now on". At this point I thought I'd make good on my promise to 'make it up to her', so I put my right hand on her shoulder and started massaging it as she was driving, accompanied with an "I'm sorry, I'll be good when you deserve it". She responded positively, we talked and joked until we got back to hers where I'd parked my car. I said "right, do you want me to stop (the massage)", and surprisingly she said "no, you're really good actually, carry on". That was enough of an indication for me to ask her to turn around so I could give her a better one, showing abit of dominance. I said that my massaging abilities were hindered because of the lack of space and because she was in an awkward position, so she actually suggested that I give her a proper one sometime and offered Friday night after work for me to go round to hers and give her a proper one. I acted casually and jokily said "yeah that's good for me...if you cancel on me though you're officially in my bad books and you'll have to work your way back up again
". She turned around, laughed and then just looked at me. Then we kissed
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Overall, I think I did pretty good. I incorporated some basics which I knew would work for my style and it got me the results.
Thoughts/opinions?
Until Friday...
phoenix;!
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