So after studying about PUA for like a month, I finally got myself into a club game. I never went to club before. So tonight is the first time. The moment I step in there I feel so strange and intimidated. So I just ordered a drinks and at that time I just realized how AFC I am.

After 15mins looking at people dancing n stuff, a girl approach me. It happen to be the seats around me are full. So she's talking to me standing n I ddnt offer her my seat. I lean back and let her lean in me to talk. She askd me whther im local or foreigner, we chat bout music a bit, college stuff and some random stuff. The conversation is going nowhere, but Im quite happy the fact that she's actually talking to my ear all the time.

Throughout the conversation, she's the one who gv me a lot of kinos. I feel quite proud bout it, but after like saying goodbye I saw her doin the same thing wth the guy sitting in front of me. Then I only realized that she's actually working there to entertain all the guys who looks bored in the club doin nothg.

I feel like a total loser so I just went back home. But Im not gonna give up on this, I know that I just havent started yet. So I will try to follow Neil Strauss Rule of The Game challenge to push me. Thanks for reading guys.

you lucky bastard live in Iceland? one of the coolest places to be?
Man, you're not a looser! not yet ,that is.

I want you to know that I'm new too, so don't take the following as the holy scripture:

If you don't like clubs, try places you like.

-I did my first number-close in a train. I like train-rides, so it's a good place for me.

The place does not matter, it matters that you're there and you're happy to be there.

Just start easy, chat up people. Just anyone, old, young, pretty, ugly, man and women.
Get used to starting a conversation with a stranger.

i think wat kamii is talking about is inner game. This means working on your confidence and such. When your first starting out, you shouldn't be focusing on getting the number close or any close for that matter, u should be focusing on building your conversational skills, getting comfortable to talking to strangers (as kamii said) and building confidence so when you see a beautiful girl, you will not hesitate to approach.

Basically go out and have fun with the conversations, don't put so much pressure on the result.

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