Day Game
19.07.10

Approached around 50
Had actual convo with 7-8
number closed or email (since some are tourists and don't have a UK mobile) - 4

What I did good
1-I was approaching girls on the streets of a shopping area, so nice pool of targets to choose from. At first I was taking it very personally if I would try speak to a girl and she would keep on walking, but then I realised that not every girl is in the right position to speak, maybe in a rush, in a bad mood etc so I started to think about approaching a high number of targets, to get one number - the ratio I estimated was: 20 approaches, 3-4 convos, 1 number close - this was good because I stopped putting unnecessary pressure on myself and stopped thinking if I approach 50 girls I have 50 numbers! that's not possible I realised
2-number closing 4 girls was quite good as I expected to get less than that
3-At first I was approaching only one sets, but interestingly enough I realised that when I approach a multiple set such as a 2 set they are more likely to want to talk, I assume it's because they are with their friend and want to have fun talking to strangers. I had more success approaching a 2 set or more
4-used my material quite well - negged, DHV, teased, FTC, opinion opener, some kino (but much less than night because I heard that not good to do a lot of kino at night)
5- Last time I had the problem of negging the girl too much, and even offending them, this time I think I have improved a lot with that because even though I negged, it was done in a playful way, and I gave one or two compliments (im not sure whether it's a great idea to compliment so early but they way i see it is push and pull - so neg and compliment
6- one the number close - i changed the way i do it, i think it was much more successful than how i did it before. before i would do the assumptive give me your number and put the phone in her hand (but she might flake, maybe she will just give you her number cauz she felt pressure but she didn't really wanna give it. So i started using the "what steps could we take to meet again" - worked great, and allowed me to separate the interested targets from the non interested ones.


What I could do to improve
1- Introduce my wing better, I was with a wing and we decided on a routine where I introduce him, but I was too nervous to cut of the convo they were having to introduce my wing, the targets were gonna leave the country tomorrow so that was my excuse for not doing it, but it would've been a good chance to practise.
2- Have more stories of DHV to tell - always great to have them prepared
3 - I approached one 2 set, to hot american girls, they were at least 7 or 7.5, they were hot, but they were the ones that were leaving the country the next day. When I did my FTC and was ready to leave they still continued the convo - that's like the biggest IOI ever, BUT because I didn't have a location to bounce to, I didn't know how to get them back to my place, and i didn't really have a location to f-close them - leave with the parents, i made an excuse and just got her email, which is useless since she is leaving. I am thinking that they seemed like tourists that wanted a bit of an adventure and ones that were looking for some fun so it's a shame that my wing and I didn't pursue the chance better BUT i am just reminding myself that it wasn't us who missed the opportunity but they missed a fantastic opportunity to be with fun, interesting PUAs - so they weren't good enough for us not vise-versa
4 - there was a stuation where there were AMOG present - and I realised that I don't know how to deal with them - those 2 american girls I spoke about, we thought about going back to them (i know that lowers our value) but anyway when we saw them some other guys approached them and there were those 2 girls, and 5 guys around them, and only my wing and I so we just left it - but that's something I need to improve on


Overall

I was happy with the effort I made to approach, at first I was starting to freeze up but after I began to get used to the mechanics of day game, it became slightly easier. I was getting one-itis so I'm happy I number closed a few because now if one is being complicated or flaking then I got a bunch of others

I will try improve on those points.

My biggest challenge is inner game, so I'm going to focus a lot of attention of improving that by using hypnosis (hypnotica seems quite good), NLP confidence techniques, EFT I hear is useful, Autogenics Training - which I do of, it's a great relaxation techq.

That's me for now, I'm out

Vikratos