Since I have been back back from my trip, I have been eager to see how well my stealth routine will fare in the United States. So on the 4th, I get an invite from a female friend of mine to go to a certain club that has swing dancing in my city. This place usually has an awesome vibe and is a great place to meet women. I had great results there the day I got back from my trip, for some reason the last dance/approach I do there always ends well, I ended up Facebook closing the last girl I danced with that day, still hasn't friend requested me back
oh well.
This day was different however. When I arrived, the place was DEAD! D-E-A-D Dead! You know in the movie Swingers with Vince Vaughn where the black guy says "This place is dead, lets get out of here." PERFECT opportunity to use that guy!I could count the couples on the dance floor using one hand. Anyways I danced with about 4 or 5 women. I was looking pretty suave in a fresh white long sleeve dress-shirt, black pinstriped swing dancing hat, jeans and extremely shiny dress shoes (you could use them as a mirror). I picked out the last women I was going to dance with. She was a very attractive blonde doing some pretty advanced moves with her other dance partners, so I told her something like "You could teach me a thing or two." She accepted and my game was on
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Initial Approach
I didn't say a WORD to her as we started dancing. I took the initiative and got in as close of a dancing position as I could (arm-to back kino chests almost touching) looking back this was the BEST MOVE I MADE! As we danced some -ore, I just kept this warm, I-Think-I'm-Attracted to you expression on my face and just kept looking down into her eyes. She opened the conversation:
Her:....So whats your name?
Freedom:I don't give names out on the first meeting
Her:Why not?
Freedom:You have to earn that.
We really didn't say that much to each other, but I was able to find out how she knew about this club, if she has ever been overseas, ect. I also gave her some hints about my work, giving it a good veil of mystery. I kept putting out the mysterious-attractive guy vibe and it seemed to be working. All the while I was using gamblers technique of talking into a girls ear and never breaking eye contact, so it looks like you are going in for a kiss every time. While all this was going on, keep in mind our noses were never less then 1/4 of an inch apart at any time! Looking back, I could have EASILY gone for the kiss!We were well within range!
it was awesome!
I # and Facebook closed her. I had to distract one of her dance partners while she entered her info into my phone. I started to leave but wanted a photo with her as social proof. This was a bad move as I should have not seemed as needy. She gave me some shit tests and ended up not taking a photo with me, but I brushed them off saying 'your funny" in a seductive way, then I left to rejoin my friends at an eatery who had left me dancing with this girl.
Online Follow up
Fast-forward to a few days ago, we had this chat on facebook:
Opener + Rapport
Quote:
Freedom:So I hear that you are packing for somewhere...
Her:I am indeed
:-)
Freedom:Which exotic locale are you off to this time?
Her:well I don't know about exotic but I am headed to _________ and ________ this time
Freedom:What for?
Her:(tells me where she is going, she told me the night I #closed her that she was going to be out of the area for a while. I neg her about an activity she is doing, she laughs and tries to qualify.)
Her:so I am trying to figure out how we know each other?
Freedom:We met _____ dancing on the 4th. You were intrigued by my _____ trip to ______ I went on this summer and I was intrigued that _______ was your favorite country, and also by your _____ blue eyes.
I also had on an awesome black hat that you seemed to like
:)
Her:lol ok
you never told me your last name so I wasn't sure plus I think you know one of my other friends so that kinda through me off
Freedom: I see. Well now you know
:) Which other friend do you think I know?
Her:(proceeds to tell me a mutual friend we have on facebook, we exchange info on how we know this friend)
Her:cool
Quote:
Her:so how are you doing on the lovely evening?
Freedom:Fairly well, I need to leave soon in order to catch up on some business. How about yourself?
Herdpretty well watched the rockies game and now for packing everything and not forgetting anythign
Freedom:You sure lol
;)
Herlol maybe
Freedom:Yeah I either overpack (usually) or I forget something crucial (phone charger, toothbrush, ect)
HerI travel enough I am pretty good about knowing what i need but I am packing for two different trips cause I am not coming home in between so that makes it more difficult.
Freedom:I ask her more details about her trip.We find a common interest, sort of:Photography.
Freedom:(after she is done telling me the photography related stuff she will do this trip) Cool. I like taking photo's too. I specialize in the field of "Cool Stuff"
Her: haha well that works
Freedom: Yeah I'm an up and comm-er in the field lol. You can check out my work on my Facebook page.
Her:kk I will do that
Keepin the mystery up...
Quote:
Freedom:And ignore the part about my employment. Your not supposed to see that....yet
;)
Her:lol why not?
Freedom:We're not at that level yet...you have to earn it
:)
Herdo you have everything timed out as to when I learn stuff about you
oh no you jsut want to make me earn it
I see
:-P
Quote:
Freedom:It will be fun though. I'm like a human advent calender.
Her:oh really
how does this work?
Freedom:You never had an advent calender? The cardboard box where 15 or so days out you open one little box, eat the candy inside, and read a small fragment about the birth of Jesus?
Her:well ok I guess we have read advent calendars before but I never got candy
Freedom:The candy was half the fun! You were deprived
:)
Her:I see this
Freedom:If it helps you deal with it better, just pretend I'm James Bond or Jason Borne or
something.
Her:haha no I dont think that would help
Quote:
Freedom:Also, ignore the Iraq photos, except for the sandstorm pictures. Those are pretty cool
Her:so what do I have to do to earn all of this stuff about you?
why am I ignoring these again?
Her:you know if its on fb then its open knowledge
Freedom:Wouldn't you like to know
;) I would say some good ways of earning this stuff would be telling me when you are dropping by the (club where we met) when you get back and asking if I would like to come. Another way is we could meet somewhere downtown and go around photographing whatever we want...going to the various festivals (my city) has in the summer has been know to make me quite chatty...basically doing conman interests. Those always seem to work.
Well I g2g but great talking to you!
Her:ok have a good evening and we will continue this conversation later
;-)
night
Quote:
Freedom:Good night! Don't fall off the boat
;)
Her:I wont
Freedom:Unless you have one of those life vests with the head pillow that you float on your back. Those are NICE!
Quote:
Freedom:You'll be back the first week of August right?
Her:yeah they are
I will
I will have my computer too while I am gone but it will be hard to earn anything cause it sounds like I have to see you to make that happen
Freedom:Well keeping the lines of communication open is a definite plus!
Her:I see good to know
Freedom:Well I need to get back to business and you probably need to get back to packing. Have a good night and safe travels!
Her:yeah I shoudl
thanks
goodnight freedomfalcon
Freedom:Goodnight _____
Questions
1)What was right?
2)What was wrong?
3)Whats next?(She comes back in August).
CHAT