| So last weekend I met this Hb 8 on the streets got her number and txted her a few times during the week to set up a get together for tonight.While texting her I used a cocky/funny approach and she seemed really responsive.Tonight I texted her asking if we were still on and it was all good.Then like an hour before she told me she was going to see the street preformers downtown with her friend and I should come along.I told her I would pass,cause I thought that by the time I got there they would be leaving,but she said they would wait,so I decided to go.
When I got there,she didn't see very talkative from the start and I tried to be socialable.Her friend was really friendly and we were talking back and forth.I would ask the Hb questions,but she would only give me short replies,and then the other Hb would ask me questions,I think to keep it from being awkward.I wasn't being awkward or being shy,but I because the HB wasn't be very socialable I couldn't really think of anything to ask her other than the usual rapport building questions.We walked around ailessy for a few and that got boring,so I suggested we go do something else.
I asked if they just wanted to sitin a bar or something and they looked at each other and then the hb I came to see was like " it's up to her,she's driving", and the other girl looked back at her and was like ok,so we get in the car and HB 8 is like why don't you go home cause you have to study,so I am like,"yeah,if you don't want to chill,I will go home,and she is like no,I just thought you should study,so I told her I was fine,she still seemed introverted,so i told her again that she didn't seem in the groove and that I didn't want to inpose,so if she didn't want to hang tell me and I will go home.She said she was all good,so we hit up the bar.
When we got there to order,the driver didn't order a drink,I don't drink and the Hb8,didn't want a drink,so that was kinda awkward,and she was like "why did we come here" to which I replied,"well are other choice seemed to be walking around in circle,besides I come to bars and don't drink all the time,were here for the music and SPAM",I tried to keep the convo going,but it just seemed like I wasn't being appreciated by her,so I just stop trying and as I was thinking of how to tell them I was going home,Hb * asked her friend "do you want to go home",and I was like yeah,I am leaving too" I walked them partly to the car,gave her a hug and went home.
I know it wasn't me,but I also know that If I had better skills I might of been able to make this chick have a better time.
One thing that I am thinking,and I know this is pointless to think,but I am thinking it,so even though I don't want to,I will share it, is , I have some stains on my teeth and some discoloring,I brush and floss regularly,but bad teeth runs in my family and even though I take care of them they do have some stains.I do plan on getting them cleaned and whitened,but I am waiting until the university opens again in sept,so I can afford it,anyways,I am think maybe that is what made her unintersted,but I don't know for sure,and I am not going to make assumption and limiting beliefs,so I just going to chalk this one up as practice and keep going!!
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