I'd not been out doing 'PU' stuff for a while...Finishing up at University for the year meant I'd been really busy. Actually last night wasn't meant to be a 'pick up' night. (I don't tend to do that) But was just going out to celebrate with some friends. So was in a good mood. This is pretty important I think. If you're in a good mood it's always easier to have a good vibe when you talk to people.

Thinking about it...I didn't really do much 'PU' stuff... But I'll try and break down where I did, and hope for some positive feedback.

We started off at an open mic acoustic night. This is kindof important as I played there (I'm shit but I sing rude songs and other strongly sexually suggestive songs...I'm not sure what this does for me with girls who're there but I'm hoping it shows I'm sexual?) It always seems as though half the people love me and half hate me when I play. There was a bit of MILF there chatting to my mates band. Turns out she works at the university I'm at. We come back to her later.

I decide to go and speak to a group of Spanish girls and one guy. My friend knows the guy in the group so I go over and start speaking to him first - he's studying something similar to me at University. Speak to the girls...make some jokes about their names etc. I didn't actually have a 'target'... This is where I'm going wrong, I just talk to groups of people. Also I'd been drinking a fair bit...but so had most people. It loosens me a up a lot and makes it easier to approach but I think my conversation suffers. Anyway, the pub shuts and we get the spanish girls to come to town with us, and my friends in the band get the MILF to go with them.

We (a group of guys) end up a long way ahead of the spaniards. I insist to the others that we don't go back and meet them, and that they're coming. We wait around for about 5 minutes....I'm starting to think they're not coming. This was probably the most 'pickupy' thing I did all evening. Holding tight. 'To get the girl you have to be willing to lose the girl'....then BANG they appear. We are all happy again. This time we walk along with them. I get a spanish lesson from one of them. Still not actually got a target and not showing GENUINE interest in any of them. Just talking to them because they're hot Spanish girls.

We get to the bar and I bump into a girl I like coming out. I am pretty wasted so don't act smooth. Ask where she's headed. Consider going with her, but that means leaving my whole group and that shows neediness. I tell her to call me if she gets bored in the place she's going. I stay with my gang. Still think I acted a bit needy. Nevermind.

Go in, just generally chat with my friends, have a drink. Speak to the spaniards a bit. See a girl next to me. Blonde. About 6-7. Use my best 'opener' on her.

'Hey'

Ok, when I'm drunk I'm happy to just go and initiate conversation with girls. Then you realise IT'S NOT FUCKING HARD TO DO. They are always receptive. She has an accent. Turns out she's German. BANG I'm in. (I speak German pretty well, but always need lessons). Chat to her a bit. Turns out she's 30. (I'm 23). She doesn't look 30...She moved here to be with a guy, he left her for a 21 year old. Anyway I just get her number saying something like I need German lessons because I'm going to Germany. (I am moving to Germany in a few weeks). Maybe should have been more direct...and again showed more interest. She went off to the loo and said 'ok i'll be back, wait here'. I go back and talk to my friends again.

This is the funny point. I see the MILF from earlier chatting to this guy, who's probably about her age (35-40?). Anyway, he's dressed in a cowboy hat and has a pair of sunglasses hanging out of the top of his checked shirt. I'm about 90% sure this guy is 'Peacocking'. I'm pretty sure he's read the game or something...(I've not read it)..But he looks a LOT like how Mystery dresses in some of his videos as far as I remember. I'm drunk. I hope that if he's on these forums he reads this and learns from it. I explain about how he's dressed to my friend and decide to have some fun. (I'm a dick. Oh well). Actually I'm pretty nice to the guy. I walk over when he's in the conversation, say hi to hi and the MILF. Get both their names. As him what's with the hat. He IMMEDIATELY gets a bit defensive. So I joke around, he says something like 'ahh I'm covering my hair' I ask if he's balding underneath. (Ok, this is all in a really friendly, jokey way and not aggressive at all - just having fun) He threatens me with violence and tells me to get lost. SOmething like (ok you're starting to annoy me now I suggest you get lost) I laugh and say I was just making conversation and was genuinely interested in the hat. And the sunglasses. A friend of mine come over and explains that I was just being friendly. (I was really friendly and positive throughout the whole interaction). MILF explains that i was just being friendly.


Now this is the good bit...

The MILF then says to me, 'come on SnowyT, lets go over here' and we walk away from this guy. I speak to her a bit more. I remember kissing her on the lips a couple of times, I don't actually remember why or how... She then says 'do you want to come back to mine'...I say 'of course I'd like to come back to yours'. Turns out she invited a few people back (my friends from the band in the pub earlier). DAMN. Nevermind. Anyway, we start walking back as a group. My friend Is walking with MILF under an umbrella. I want some. I go over and join them. Again, coming across too needy.

We all go back to hers (about 4 guys - her and her friend). You've probably worked out that nothing happened or this would be in the lay reports. We stay up chatting and playing guitar until 5am when we all leave...I tried something like 'damn I'd much rather stay here on the sofa I'm so tired' but ended up leaving. She had work at 8.30 today. Poor lady.

I also have the MILF's number. Don't remember when I got that. Don't know what to do with it. Anyway, she gave it out to a few people in the group we were in.

I'll ring the German girl tonight and see where I get. I wish I didn't need alcohol to open sets. BUT TALKING TO GIRLS IS EASY. I must remember this, Because it is.

Yeah so more of a long story than anything particularly useful to be honest. But I'm a bit hungover. Any feedback on how to improve would be appreciated... Cheers!

Nice FR.

It's funny, but as I get more and more involved with PUA, I notice a lot more about people around me.

There are a LOT of guys that are out trying to pick up girls. Its really easy to spot when they are using methods from The Game or Mystery Method. If you pay attention, you also see what the naturals are doing.

I dont really understand ur title "Careful about 'peacocking:?

So you AMOGED the guy trying to pickup the MILF and the guy lost composure & DLVed himself by being aggressive towards you and i feel thats why the MILF wanted to leave the guy and go with u as u displayed confidence and ALPHA male attributes.

Anyways mate good job

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Sorry mate, wrote this when I was hungover! She actually told us that she thought that guy was a total poser, don't know if I put that in there.

Anyway. I tried ringing the German the next day and got no answer. Texted her the day after with 'I need german lessons. What do you want in return?' (in German). She invited me out last night (as part of a group) but I was busy. But I'm going along with a good natural friend of mine as a wingman to watch the Germany-Spain match this Wednesday, I presume she's going with workmates.

So that's going pretty well. And I'm glad as I was getting one-itis over the girl I saw outside the bar that night. She's stopped texting back so often. She's other playing hard to get or gone off me. My thoughts are with the latter as I didn't make a move soon enough. I'm going to have to freeze her out. But I was dedicating too much thought and effort into scoring her - and realised I should be gaming other girls!