Just got back from a hell of a night with some friends. We went to a lounge for Latin dancing night and it was a friend's birthday.
Got there around 8. The place was pretty empty except for the friend and her HB friends. There were HB9, 2HB8s, HB7, 2HB5s and an HB6 in the group. Chose my target immediately: HB9 also known as birthday girl's best friend.
Some guy was giving latin dancing lessons so we all did that. Then the guy says choose a partner
my signal to start gaming. Like a true alpha male I turned to the group of girls and looked at them and held a gaze with HB9. She immediately comes and we start dancing. Really light kino going on. Getting her used to my touch. I leave and start dancing with HB6. We're having fun. Song ends and I go stand by the bar. One of the HB8s grabs my hand and pulls me on the dance floor.
Let me say this now...I absolutely suck at dancing. BUT I did take a latin dancing course which I went to a total of 2 classes so I knew a little. So for all you guys who say 'I cant dance' and just sit on the sidelines get out there and have fun that's all you gotta do.
So I'm with HB8 and she's spinning and we're having fun. I'm escalating kino because you never know. In the middle I decide to go with my 'I don't give a shit' attitude. I dance HB8 into view of HB9 who's sitting with the HB5s and we just keep having fun. I glance over and HB9 is eating her heart out. I gotta say again we were doing really simple stuff. I honestly dunno how to dance. We were trodding on each other's feet and all of that but the fact that we were having fun was all that mattered.
A little later I decide it's my time to strike. I'm reading the situation well so I go stand near where HB9 is sitting and feeling the music. About a minute in she turns to me and asks me to dance. We dance and she immediately pulls me in close. Her entire body is pressed against mine. We dance and it's a disaster. She couldn't dance at all and she kept tripping up. After a while she wanted to stop because she's afraid she'll trip me. I tell her let's give it one more go. It isn't much better so I let her go. End up dancing with HB6 in front of her again and we're flowing and having fun and she's wishing she was dancing with me. I start to feel bad so I create a sort of dance circle and everyone is just having fun.
Fast forward after a bunch of dancing and some wild kino
. We're ready to end the night and some guy gave her something to drink and she's totally drunk. I have a rule to not close girls that are completely wasted. Had gotten her number earlier so I figure it's cool. Dunno who the guy was though. Her friend just told me someone she knew gave her something to drink and now she's wasted. Decided we should take her home. Evening basically ended on a low because of that. Could have easily kiss closed or f closed but I didn't want to with her in that state. Damn that good side of me!
Personal feedback: Should have opened more sets of people we did not come with. Guys you need to take a latin dancing course!!!! Latin nights can give you so much opportunity. Yes I number closed some of the other girls as well. Should have done more takeaways. I did some but this post was getting pretty long so I cut off a bunch of good stuff. And probably should have closed HB9 regardless? I don't know but what I did learn is:
You are always alpha. Regardless if there are guys who are trying to be more alpha you are still alpha. Always think like the Alpha and good things will happen!
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