Hey all,

So here's a brief note about some things I've learned that seem to be working for me, but could use improvement. You probably know this, but I have my own 'twists' that work.

1) Confidence......#1 duh. Inner game whenever you go out has to be in place. If you don't 'feel like it'. Make yourself, or you'll go days or weeks with the excuse of "not feeling like it". People hate going out of their comfort zone, so they relax on their game.

2) Take time to relax and get out of your head. Be in the NOW and forget what your head is telling you. It's mostly crap anyways. Learn to game by rolling with events as they happen.

3) Humor is cool, but don't overdo it, or else you'll come off as a clown and nervous. If you can get away with being funny while maintaining a straight face (almost aloof look) the better. And say it like it's just a random thought that fell out of your mouth.

4) DO NOT get frustrated over shit tests if they are few and rare (from her). If they get to be too many, and she's full on giving you a brick wall to run up against. Let her know by giving her one good one back and demonstrating that you have better stuff to do than run through her hoops. Don't EVER get in a position of being the poodle.

5) Eye contact WHEN IT MATTERS. In initial stages maintain it with a friendly vibe. When talking to her, imagine her at your apartment or in your bed nude, and laying down talking to you about "life". Imagine her and you in a tub full of bubbles and running water. This for me helps. It feels like I'm already 'there' with her.

I don't give them eye contact if they look away. I make them 'work' for eye contact. They give it, I give it, or else I'm watching the game and talking out the side of my mouth. Maybe it's wrong form but it's what I do.

6) Rapport can get too comfortable. I've learned that TOO much 'rapport' will put you in friend zone. You MUST break it and challenge her or else she'll ask you to paint her nails with her soon. If it get's stale and you're not building sexual energy, it can go downhill fast if you don't switch her thought into "wait, does he still like me, what did I say wrong".

7) Outer game REALLY helps with AA.. Things like exercise, dressing 'right', walking calm, feeling relaxed yet focused all help IMMENSELY.

8 ) Allowing yourself to be a sexual being instead of a "good guy". I don't know exactly what it means, but maybe you'll get it.

9) Make her work, make her work, make her work. Then reward. YOU'RE the prize in this contest and she secretly WANTS you to be. I've seen it over and over and over again.

10) Answer about 70% of her questions directly, 28% of them indirectly, about 2% don't answer at all and ignore or overstep her answer. There's a niche in this move I'm working on that is interesting. There's a disrupt pattern there that gets their attention no matter what the subject.

11) Don't linger, don't hover....EVER

12) Don't ever hinge your feelings on her reactions. Her thoughts, reactions, words are just part of an experience. You either learn from them or take them as something written in stone. You can totally FAIL one night and be a MPUA the next. Don't crumple up and give up. Move on and re-frame yourself for the next.

13) Learn phone, text, email game. Getting numbers is a step, but the next level is crucial to ever seeing her again.

14) If you ever find yourself saying "she's too hot", "she's wouldn't be into me", "I'm not her type" or whatever crap goes on, slap yourself mentally and snap out of it. See her as 'lucky' to know YOU.

15) NEVER make nervous movements. Be aware of your body language, but not overly aware where you look like a guy that is 'posing'. Women actually talk about guys that 'pose' behind their backs. EVERYONE knows when a guy is posing. Be relaxed and natural. Breathe, and be in the NOW

16) If you're not escalating in some form, you are drowning. This is the final one I am saying as it is the one I PERSONALLY need to work on. Chicks are into me but I hold back to often. If a chick is into you and is touching you...bail out on DHV, qualification, negging, humor, etc.

Be playful and sexual (not creepy sexual).

Hope any of this helps. I wrote it down to remind myself of these things also. Happy hunting.