ok so last night i went to a club. All week i had been psyching myself up and i was pretty excited about it cos i had a lot of stuff that i wanted to try. The night did not turn out how i had planned at all.

I was taking public transport to the club with my mate where we were gonna meet some other friends (about 5 girls, i thought this would help with social proof). The tram we were on breaks down and we had to walk the rest of the way, luckily it was only 15 min walk away. However, as we're walking it starts to rain so when we get to the club we're basically drenched...not a good start to the night. We meet our friends at the line and go in. The club was pretty empty at this point cos it was still pretty early in the night. I walk around looking at possible targets, and i start to make mental notes of which ones i should approach.

However i made absolutely no approaches the whole night, i had terrible approach anxiety. I had no idea i was going to be this bad though. This was my second time going out sarging (or attempting to at the most), the first time i had no problem approaching, i would basically go by the 3 second rule except this time i just couldn't work up the courage. I had so many opportunities and i let them pass, felt really disappointed about this. However just when i thought i was going to go home a complete failure, a girl approaches me (actually i don't no if i'd call it an approach by her, she basically just asked me a question about the world cup game they were showing on the tv).

I would say she was about an Hb7, her face wasn't the best but she had a nice body. Anyways, she sat next to me, like really close, she had great energy. We talked about the world cup for a while and moved on to more fluff. The whole time she had a smile on her face, and every opportunity i had i teased her about something she said, this made her laugh a lot as it did me lol. We talked for about 10 minutes, made her laugh a lot, she was also touching me a fair bit (seemed like she was gaming me lol), i tried a bit of kino here and there. My friends then decide they wanna leave, so seeing as i thought things were going so well this this girl, i pull out my phone nd tell her to put her number in because i have to leave. This next bit really surprised me.

She tells me that she doesn't give her number out, im like wtf? i ask her y not, nd she's like "i just broke up with my boyfriend nd im not ready to start dating" or something along those lines (i cant remember the words exactly). I tell her "its not like im asking you out on a date, but oh well its your loss" and leave with my friends. That was basically my night. Really disappointed in myself that i made no approaches, had a really bad case of approach anxiety, i really needed someone to smack me across the head and tell me to man up lol.

Im guessing the girl didnt give me her number cos i didn't create enough attraction, maybe she was giving me fake IOI's?