I was out sarging with my wing and our pivot just having fun like we always do. We started at Yunkers and ended at Manayunk brew pub. We opened sets and become the life of the party for all the locations we entered. The pivot was great help in opening sets but she couldn’t help me with this situation.

We got to brew pub at 1 am, dancing the last hour of away. I got opened by a two set and it looked so try hard because they had to cut through the crowd and surprised me. After that my social proof went through the roof and I made eye contacts with this HB9. I held eye contact then proceeded to approach her. I want over to her full of positive energy and dancing. I opened by asker her to show me her best moves.

She decided to drop it low, so I did the same but better. I told her that she couldn’t beat me at this (playfully and full of confidents). Then she agreed and we started to dance together. We were grinding and I was using Gambler stealth kino tactics to build attraction. So I asked three easy questions to decide how to game her.

1. Asked her name, wait to see if see asked me for mine.
2. Why she was dancing with me and not here boyfriend?
3. who are you here with?

I asked her name and then she asked for mine. No boyfriend and she was there with her friends. All IOI’s in my mind so I decided to make friends with one of the males in the group through positive energy. He was showing me love, like we were long lost childhood friends. So I thought I was in the clear, male out of the way and the girlfriends were loving me. So I slowly started testing her compliance by moving her away form the friends and throw in some IOD’s (looking at and dancing with other girls).

She started to chase me and I started looking an isolate spot off the dance floor. Then out of the corner of my eye this guy comes up and lifts up his shirt and puts it over her head. I was like WTF, I tried my best not to show any emotions but I knew my mind was stunned but my body was still dancing. It was like the AFC summoned a raichu and then it thunder punched me. My wing said at the end of the night he was stunned after seeing that chump move. After that I asked the girl did she know him, she said yes but her tone sounded humiliated/embarrass. It was the other male friend in there group that I didn't even know was there.

I’m not going to lie but that one move threw me off my game. The HB9 did somehow find her way back to me but I was no good after that move. Bottom line I didn’t close at all. I wanted to isolate and build comfort but I couldn’t do it because my mind was F**ked up. We were mixing sweat on the dance floor and kinoing heavily and this one chump move sealed my fate.

Questions
What could I have done to counter that move?
Have any of you guys got hit with a similar move that threw you off your game?
If so how did you recover?

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It probably just triggered something in your head that confused you. Your game is probably solid, just not totally flawless, like everyone. There are still things that throw my game off totally.

Stuff just happens. Forget about it there was nothing you could do. Sometimes you have to just pretend it never happened and continue your game.

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Can you explain why that move threw you off? I don't really understand it. Was the dude ripped and she was checking out his body or something? Please explain why this move threw you off so much

Dido. I'm a bit confused myself. There must have been something that ticked you off a bit (ex. you thought he was cockblocking you, you felt awkward, etc.)

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The guy threw his shirt over her head while he was still wearing it and while p hyuga was still dancing with her.So not only did he slam her face into his sweaty chest which,had to hurt but,he messed her hair all up and threw everything out of balance.Making his self look like a jackknocker.It's almost like he tried to absorb her.

It not only effected p hyuga but,me and the crowd as well everybody was just lookin at this guy like,WTF.

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