| Sarging in a bumpin ass nightclub - id love constructive criticism or plain old suggestions.
i got a lil drunk before hand which usually doesnt do well for me but by the time we got to the club i i was just buzzed which helped me relax. the guy i went w doesnt know any PUA techniques but was still a good wing cuz his body language was strong, hes confident enuff, not cocky and hes pretty good at having convo w me between sets without him lookin all around the room at hotties DLVn for all to see.
i was given eye contact by several hotties throughout the night but inside the club none of my openers wuld work cuz its so insanely loud.
all i really had memorized anyway was an opener about elvis, im gona write out several and review them like style did cuz i always go blank in the club reachin for an opener.
2set High8s, blonds holdin their heels watchin the dance floor. there were a couple hookers in disguise hangin round the bar. so i rolled on the high8s from the side, didnt lean in, said "ok i need a females opinion, is that girl over there a hooker or not?" she was confused at first and seemed annoyed but once she understood what i was doing she smiled about it and gave an honest opinion. a lil back anf forth but then of course i had no game from there. BUT!! i cold approached her, thought on my feet about the line, my body language was on point and will have less AA next time around. lookin back im proud of myself. i gota master opening before i can focus on mastering the next phase anyway.
next set - i go to the outside smoking area and i come out smiling, like im here to make everything better. first thing i see is a 3set tinychick9, kimkardashian8, uglycuzn5. i didnt even give myself a chance to have AA. i bust right in the set and im gaming the shit out of kardashian and ugly cuz, ignoring tinychick and negged the shit out of her. "thats not ur natural hair color? well it looks nice anyway" my body goes back to the group.
---did i do that right?
she started beggin to say stuff and i give her a line about not interrupting. look to the group and say, "jeez u can put her in a dress and take her out but shes..." i forget how i finished it. "put me in a dress??" mystery woulda been proud.
i admit i delivered the lines tight and am proud of that but my target might have been a lil too drunk for this to work the way it should.
the rest of the set was enjoying the convo so we all stuck around. some "beauty is common" and a lil kino with the target, eventually i isolate her, my wing doin his job workin on the rest of set. (and he knows nothing of PUA) i have target sit on my lap, i offer to read her palm finally since i mentioned it to her a couple minutes before. keep in mind i know nothing about palm reading yet. i thought she was drunk enough i could pull it off... WRONG. i give some bullshit about heart line and talk about her being a passionate person (what chick wouldnt like that?) shes like "yea ok whos not a passionate person?" i say "well lots of people arent". didnt go as planned but when i learn the palm reading itll be solid.
i cut the thread start some new shit and attempt to put her arm around my shoulder as shes on my lap. Denied! - she says "sorry its about my comfort too". well eventually 1 of the girls gota pee and we breakup, but b4 we do i realized my work disarming the set has allowed kardashian to be ok with leaving me and the target outside together. i didnt wana stay cuz i knew my target was hungry, eager to leave and didnt hook on my material anyway i knew id get blown out. in retrospect i shoulda let myself get blown out. point is that it worked. i didnt Kclose or Numclose but i got the target to make several attempts to prove herself to me, and the set responded well too. if i clean shit up, have more material itll be even better next time. let this motivate u guys as it did me.
example: make sure shes hooked b4 i try and get her arm around me. also the kardashian look alike pointed out my ring is similar to hers. i playfully said mine is better. i should have said "we both have great style" creating more common ground and comfort rather than boasting like a jerk.
Last edited by 0RI0N on Wed Jun 23, 2010 7:02 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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