Tonight was an interesting and disappointing night it started off very well but ended in epic failure. I was at small party with some close friends and mutual acquittances. There was an old friend from grammar school and HB 7, and she was giving me many IOI's. I did some DOHV routines on her friends which really caught her interest, she also started asking me to take pictures with her, touching my, and following me around to talk. She invited me to go out, and asked why I never text her, and why I never invite her anywhere. To make this story short she was definitely into me, however, I am an idiot. I isolate her a few times flirting, touching her hair and body. This continues off an on, I was working cat-string theory. We then are isolated again and I fuck it up doing a typical AFC thing, I say, "I would like to kiss you," out of the fuckin blue, without leading up to it like a total AFC. She of course feels uncomfortable with my formality and sudden loss of discrete romance. She says, "I didnt expect that", and after talking a little more tells me I like kissing but just not like that and grabs my arm. At this point I feel like a major idiot for not just kissing her, before or doing a kiss close. A fight then breaks out, and I say out loud, " This must must be a sign", then rush to stop my drunken friends from fighting. The night we say goodbye, I make sure not to approach her although she looks at me, and continue to build social proof with others in the group. We say good by as a group to everyone, I can see she is still unsure what to make of the night as am I. I kept good posture the whole night up until mu epic random AFC move. Does anyone have any advice on I or what I should text her as I am sure there is something I could do , because up until my AFC move there was attraction. Should I even bother texting her?

Let's be honest here Fitzcarraldo you blew a critical moment for the two of you. In all honesty it's easier to find someone else and start the process new than continue with her.

For some women that one awkward moment in time and botched kiss might have turned her cold to you. For others you might still have a chance. I believe anything is able to be salvaged with the right words and things done. It just depends on how special this girl is to you and are you committed to working that hard for her.

If so...then you are going to have to swallow your pride some and go back after her. You could text her something like, "I enjoyed hanging out with you. I have to apologize I was a little nervous around you. Let's have a do over...when are you free this week?" You can word it how you want but definitely try and close for another opportunity to see her and try again. I know some guys may call it an AFC move or whatever but in order to get another chance you're going to have to explain your actions somehow so she doesn't just think you're weird.

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Great idea did I just that, and she wants to hang out tonight at some bar by UIC with friends. I am playing this straight PUA no AFC bullshit slip ups. I am going to pick up where i left off and open new sets to establish further social proof and attraction. I will not fuck this easy set up!!