So, I've read. Like many of you. I get into it, think I know it all. Then I put it to practice for myself, in front of myself... and it all falls to pieces.

After lurking, with my general knowledge of reading for a long time, I've decided to put this to the test. I've started going to clubs now that I'm 18.

Here is where I am at right now.. I have read and read and read for over two years, off and on. I know it works, but I've been too afraid to use it. Well, I've come up with a routine of mine, specific to my life, using my DHV stories and negs appropriate to lead into the DHV or kinos that go along with my routine. I will not lay out the routine word for word because it is mine. But some of it might slip up here and there because it's necessary in order to journal the story accurately. As of now, I have not used the routine once, I'm not even sure if I've used more than two pieces of it at a time.

Last week I went to a club, and this week was worse than the first so I've decided to keep a journal, to review myself, help others and get advice on what i've done good or poorly.

I hope you guys enjoy.

Progressive approach to social dynamics.

But why havent your club-game or routines been working?

What was good & poor about it?

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Night 1:

This was last week, so I'll try to tell it as accurately as possible. I thought I'd get better as time goes on but apparently I need to reflect and have others crittic me to imrpove. Imagine that!

Went to a club with my friend (he does not know PU at all, won't bother with it), walked in and scoped it out since it was the first time being in there.

#1 - 2 Set. After 5 min. we see 2 cute girls so I pick one and he took the other. I am not too tall so my girl was taller, not sure if she was feeling that. we go over and first thing he says is "you girls wanna dance?" I didn't like that but what can i do right? My girl talks to me and says " I can't dance" and i go "It's ok, we'll learn together" (Probably should have DHV'd and said "It's ok I'll guide you"). Anyways, we tell them we don't like the song, and we should dance if the next one is any good. We take them to sit down and they proceed to tell us "We knew you guys were gonna come over and say hey, I even told her!" and I leaned over and was like "Hey were not that predictable.." Anyways, we get them out to the dance floor after a new song starts. As the second song we dance to together starts the face each other and start talking etc.. I've heard this is not too good. I took it as a IOD and after the song stopped the stopped dancing, me and my friend stood they for a sec until I tapped him on the shoulder and said "hey lets go get a drink" Big mistake #1... Probably should have invited them instead of ditching but I guess it showed willingness to walk away?

We got a drink and sat around looking for some new chicks. We see two new girls and sitting next to us and I decide to open them once a song is coming to an end.

#2- 2 Set. I go and sit to the right of my girl in a chair, my wing sits to the right of me.. I say "Hey" and she responds. I say " whats your name" ( I drew a blank) She says "Tonya" I was mixed up on what is was for a second and I go "Oh, that's cute, is it like turkish or something?" Forgot what else we talked about but I get her to dance and as we leave I said hey to her friend and introduced her to my friend and told them they should dance. She was a good bit taller than me, and changed up he grinding a lot.. I felt as if I could keep up with her change ups... and after the first song she said she was hot and her friend left us. I felt defeated.

#3- 2 set. One chick texting, the other is just on the rail. I go up and say "hey" she taps the girl on her side and say something like "Here are some guys." I talk to her for a sec and my wing ust stood to the side.. Good song was on so I said "we should dance" and she put her hand on me and said ok. We go out to the dance floor and I introduced the other girl to my friend, but apparently he walked off. Me and my girl are out there dancing for 3 songs, and she comes back. (It was the first girl I felt a connection with, I was feeling this HB could be the one for the night) I look around after we stop dancing and see her friend by herself on the rail. We walk over and I was like hey you guys wanna come sit with me and my friend Jake?" My friends supposed target goes "who?" and I respond "Jake?" She had no idea who he was; they never danced- he bailed.

I find my wing sitting at a table by himself, and I go up and sit with him, we talk for a bit and he said she wasn't interested in dancing. While we're talking a girl came up and asked him to dance, so I play it off cool and go talk with the first set we opened. They didn't seem interested so I laid off to the side of them, and all the sudden my girl comes up and starts dancing on me and such. Song ends, and she goes off to dance with another guy. Idk why.

I find my friend again at a table, and I tell him to give it another shot with the girl who rejected him. we go over, I introduce them, and take my girl from the #3 to dance again. Come back and it was a no show, they weren't together again. So i stand there talking with my girl for a bit, trying to isolate her so I can get to the comfort stage and start talking...but she wouldn't leave her friend. I leave her, dance with some other girls, get her to dance again, then take her # and left.

She flaked out and didn't text me. I'd assume because I never got to the comfort stage. Her friend wouldn't dance, she wasn't too attractive. So I guess the isolation/ comfort messed me over.

My routines haven't been working because I don't feel natural using them.. I mean its my stuff, but it feels weird. So I just haven't even tried them yet.

I'm not confident pulling out the big stuff when its easier to go with what is easy and flows naturally... you know? I try to throw in little stuff here and there though.

Night 2.

Today was fathers day.. bad Idea. Went into the club and there were only about 1/3 the people there as last time. Came a little late, so a lot of people had already hooked up as well. Non-the-less...enough with excuses. Down to the gaming..

#1- 3 set. Me and my same friend go up to the set, I glide my hand along my targets friend arm smoothy and said "hey" to my target. She automatically blushes and turns away leaving me and my friend with a 2 set..so I just ask my target's friend to dance as a new song started.. She says ok and my friend goes off with the other chick. We dance for two songs and then the 3rd friend who rejected us at first comes up and dances on my friends girl... after the song they all stop. I talk with my friend for a sec and walk away a bit.. then they go off the dance floor. Damn, should have asked them to sit down so we could build comfort.. but got CB by the 3rd chick. We couldn't handle 3 girls.

#2- 3 set. We are sitting outside the entrance of a corner of the dance floor. these three chicks are walking off as a new song starts. I get up, confidently walk to the dance floor and as the last girl walks by I run my hand along her arm and say "Lets dance." She tells me "I have to go with my friends?" so I rubbed along her arm and went "oh... you have to?" and she goes "yeah i'm sorry...." and walked off.

#3- 2 set. One chick is GIANT, one chick is small. My wing wouldn't take the giant so I approach her along on the dance floor. I ask her to dance and she says sure. She started doing a bunch of change ups, I hated it. I'm a good grinder, I just can't change up, and she left like half way through the song and hooked back up with her friend again who was talking to another girl.

They wind up hooking up with the 3 chicks from #2, and make a 5 set..I didn't touch that the rest of the night.. wasn't confident enough.

#4- 2 set. We talk and I asked my target to dance. she looks at her friend going off to dance with my friend and goes "Ok." they take us both to the railing and start dancing on us and I had no idea what to do... I just went with her body but before the song was over they both left.

#5- 2 set + 1 guy. I go over to a girl texting on the phone, she's sitting with another girl, and a guy. I walk up and say "hey is this your boyfriend?" (hoping she'd say no so I could take her to the dance floor - she looked bored out of her mind.) She goes "yup" and I said " OH HEY! what's up bro?? what's your name!" he tells me and I tell him mine. Everything is cool, I mingle for a bit with his girl and then I bring my friend over and let him wrap it up . I just walked off LOL.

We wound up leaving.. It just wasn't going well.

In conclusion, I've never danced before...so these past 2 attempts have been so new to me. I can tell I've improved with that at least. I used to be scared to even get out on the dance floor..but now I use it as a scape goat when talking to chicks and not having anything to say..

u should have a look at dance game if u haven't already, because from what i can see the dance floor looks like it is a big part of your game

Thanks. I've heard about dance floor game and probably read up a little on it but didn't pay much attention because I didn't think i'd be trying it. I'd never danced in public before now. However, now I find myself using it as a scapegoat when I have nothing to say just so I can build kino.

I'll read up on it, but I don't particularly want dance floor game. I want to be able to stray away from it more and just have natural game, but there aren't many places to sit in the club I go to.. so it makes that kind of hard.

Girl #3 in the first set was really cocc blocking!!!

Hey AFC2idc,Im really feeling your vibes.

Despite the crash & burn in sets and all that,it's impressive to approach so many damn sets!

I dont think AA is a prob' for you.

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