I have used MM to get laid before, but never in a structure, only using mixed gambits with no knowledge on where to place them. And I have never opened a girl that I did not already know, only girls that I have met before or were friends of a friend so because of the social setting they were sorta of forced to talked to me. However even out of all those times, I got laid only once with MM. (Not to say that MM is bad)

Yesterday was the day I planned to go out to the mall and truly begin my hobby of being a PUA.

I went to the mall by myself with the intentions to approach girls and take it as far as I could. Was not trying to get numbers or kclose. I approached a total of 7 girls and even scored a number of a 8HB(Gift from God). Even though I spoke clearly, stood tall, was dressed nice, and did not peck, I know I fucked up bad every time. And what I really need help with is where to take it/what to say after the opener.

I have not dwelled on what I messed up on. It was actually a lot of fun and I look forward to doing it again (today or tomorrow) but I want to be much more prepared with material before I go out again.

I really appreciate any canned material,beliefs, and any and all advice, hell I`ll even take criticism (I got feeling`s somewhere though so not to harsh:)

Also feel free to correct me on my post (grammar and what not)

~Vallon

Well what type of openers are you using (i.e direct, opinion, situation etc.)? What areas of the mall are you approaching these women (what type of stores etc.)? I would pick a specific type of opener and brainstorm your own material...asking for advice is a great way to start a conversation...keep in mind you should throw in some mild teasing/humor as well. Find out after the initial material/jokes why the woman is at the mall. If it seems like she isn't in a rush...tell her you are going to grab a coffee (i assume there are coffee shops at the mall) and that she is welcome to join you. If she does...continue being fun and flirty (not too sexual, keep it light and fun), be sure to use kino (when she teases you back...playfully push her shoulder, maybe grab her hand while walking side to side and let it go after a few seconds-preferably before she does- while playfully implying she is trying to hold YOUR hand). Don't ask what her name is or where she is from until she asks such questions or until you've talked to her for a bit.

Relax...have fun...if the lil 'coffee date' goes well, tell her to give you her number and also grab her phone and put your # in as well. You prolly aren't advanced enuff to f-close or even k-close a girl you meet at the mall the same day...to do such, you must have a very strong confident frame, the woman must be adventurous sexually and trust you quickly, and she must not have plans! So shoot for the 'mini-date' scenario and meeting someone great...you can work day 2 plans later.

This is awesome advice Chainfire, it really helped me. Thanks man!

nice!!!

Sorry I should have explained my self better..... when I say I nice I mean it in a way saying that most guys wouldn't even aproach a women so good job on acomplishing that and second off you admitted it was you who fucked up!!! Lots of guys would blame it on the girl so good job!!!

Thx for the advice Chainfire

I wasn't gonna go sargin a few days ago, but after I read your post AfterDark, it sort of pushed me too. Ty.

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Beautiful advice

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