| Ok, forgive my english, I am a bit under the influence while writing this.
I just came back from a club, one of the most fashionable clubs in Europe. Anyways, I was gonna go there with my wing and some friends. However, my wing got scared and went home. So I got in line with my pivot and a friend. Suddenly I hear some girls speaking my language in line, (No Im not english). So I turn around and start talking to them. I tell them whatever they are gonna know in order to get into the club. They are surprised and happy to hear a friendly voice. I spend some time chatting them up and my pivot realizes that the club isnt gonna let us in without being models (which I am) or soccerstars (which I am not). So we bounce to another club, just as fancy but anyway. There is a line. Me and my pivot act as if it is self clear that we belong there so we just pass through the crowd (what goes for a line in this place) and enter. The girls follow. I keep talking to the girls and realize that they are there for the weekend only. So I chat to them for a while while I watch people around the club. I joke with the girls about the pathetic guys I see, and they agree.
After a while the girls go to the bathroom. When two girls go to the bathroom it is about peeing and talking about the situation.
They come back and we keep talking. At one point the one girl tells me that she has a bf. I respond, yeah WTF cares, I got a GF. Whatever. BTW for the ones who cares, she is a Swedish HB8. We take some pictures and my pivot qualifies me. After a while, number close with a possible day 2 tomorrow.
Why did I suddenly share my experiences while I never normally do? Because this has a point.
Let me list the number of rules I broke or the stuff that I did that no normal PUA would ever do.
1. I broke the 3 second rule by like 2 minutes.
2. I didnt use an opener.
3.I didnt neg.
4. I didnt ground.
5. I didnt ask how they know each other.
6. I asked questions.
7. I talked about my job.
8. I didnt try to qualify myself.
9. I DLVed when they thought my job was awesome (which it is).
10. I didnt kino escalate.
11. I adressed the hottest girl first.
12. I didnt DHV at all.
13. I didnt isolate the target.
14.I didnt have a target.
15. I didnt hide my faschination of the pickup arts.
So why did I still walk away with her number?
Because I had the right mindset. I assumed that I had a higher value. I had the higher value. I was being nice to them, treatin them with respect, showing that I dont have to prove myself to anyone. I assumed that they wanted to join us, which they wanted.
So you see, as long as you have a strong inner game and the right mindset, you can break any rule you want, and still win...
Ezo
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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.
bbardot: you just reminded me about porn
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