| Okay so I go with a guy friend to the bars.
It's 11:30pm
It's summertime in a small college town, and the bars are actually busy. I'm surprised because thursdays are straights ghost towns.Tons of hotties out... as we walk to the bar from the car, I see 3 groups of hot girls and no guys!
As we walk a couple of blocks to the bars, we see a few girls we know. They are leaving, but want to hang out this summer. We'll see.
We go to one bar, where its moderately packed. See a girl I know, we hug, some guy swoops, she leaves. I leave bar.
We go to the bar that is "upscale" with all of the sorority girls and frat guys. We each order a couple beers each, I catch a blonde girl checking me out from across the bar. Very sexy. We head to the rooftop balcony. We sit at a table the overlooks campus corner. The street with tons of people and 4 bars all next door to eachother. Beautiful night, people-watching down below. People pulling up in taxis and getting dropped off in SUV's. Im not talking just cute girls, i'm talking turbo girls in heels, dress, long legs, blonde hair, etc. My friend points out I should open the set behind me. I turn around, its a couple 8's, they look slightly older than me, around 23-24. The one closest to me is a cute sandy blonde, the other is this persian middle eastern girl with her giant D cups spilling out of her shirt.
She is trying to light her cigarette, so I say
"need a hand? i just happened to notice that your green lighter is empty"
she says "haha yeah, here why dont you have this"
she hands me a half package full of marlboros. I say what the hell. I already had a full pack of parliament. I light her cig for her. She tells me she doesnt even smoke cigs. Keeps qualifying herself.
I cant remember exactly what was said, but i'm leaning back, questioning who she is.
She doesnt go to school here, but her middle eastern friend does. I give her shit.
Her friend tries to get into the conversation, desperately, oh my god those tits were huge. She wasnt fat either.
I would turn around to my buddy after the conversation lulled, this happened a few times. We would build rapport, then slow down, i would turn around. Then reopen a couple minutes later.
She tells me where she works (a block away), I say stuff like "ok so you're a bartender" and she qualifies herself "nooo but im working on it! u should come see me"
I make her guess my age, she guesses 25, I say 21 just old enough to drink. She thinks im confident. She laughs. We're having fun. Like both of the girls are laughing, im self amusing.
In my mind I think I should grab her number when I re-engage.
I re-engaged her 3 times. I'm talking to my buddy, he can see the set, not me.
My buddy tells me they are getting up and leaving. FUCK. I messed up, I didn't escalate the interaction. I just played it cool and acted like I didnt care. I see her ordering a drink across the way, then she disappears. Nada.
I try to shrug it off, but the main reason they left without saying bye or anything is that I didn't engage enough. I kept turning around, playing the ignore game. I SHOULD have got up, stood at their table rather than turning around. Ask for number. They were hooked for a bit, then I ignored.
My friend and I walk back down to the bar area, HOLY SHIT. It's packed. Tons of really hot girls in heels walking around. Blondes, asians, brunettes. I was very surprised that it was about 70% as full as it is during school. Probably 100-150 college kids in there.
I order another beer, and there is this hot blonde girl ordering a drink next to me. I'm like "hmmm what do I want? you know what i want" and smile. She smiles, and says I dunno. I ask what she's ordering, she says "a frozen screwdriver", I nudge her and tell her she just loves vodka. She giggles. Her boyfriend shows up. Lame., I go smoke a cig out back. As I come back in through the doorway, there's this gorgeous 8.5 blonde with legs to die for. I didn't know what to say, so I say "you're really freaking hot by the way" and she grabs my hand. We squeeze eachothers hand for a second until her guy friend comes up and she lets go. They leave, I leave. Such a glory moment! (one of the hottest girls out. period)
I see hot asian girl with some crazy margerita drink. Its like extra huge. I ask what it is, she tells me, and gives me a sip. I grab her hand and we exchange names. We both walk away mutually.
I continue to circle around the bar (its a big square bar where u can walk around, lots of room). There is this stool standing in the sea of people. Hot girls and frat guys EVERYWHERE. I sit down. Everyone is standing. 95% of the people are standing around the bar. There's this really cute brunette standing next to me, I open her "you're adorable, I love what u are doing with that (nodding to her top) and your hair" she giggles and says thanks. We exchange names, holding hands for prolonged period. She's with her friends, and they start to walk away. They leave.
I see a couple guys I know. its such higher energy environment with so many hot girls that they obviously just continue talking to girls. I get on my way.
By this time it is a little after 1am, my friend and I leave to get food.
Great fun at bars, drunk. Didnt open many sets, but i'm getting back into sarging mode. My goal is to go out AT LEAST 3 nights a week (bars are so empty during the week). My AA has been non existant the past few nights...although i was tipsy/drunk. But so is everyone else.
Its obvious that hot girls can build huge rapport with you, then just walk away. If they are hot, they have abundance. They can go to the bar and have tons of guys hit of them. They arent desperate. I have to be the one escalating the interaction. I have to NOT play "hard to get" that's such bullshit. I need to cut-space immediately. Flirt, get her number. Get out or get in. Fuck being indirect. I went indirect with the 1st set, failed. I went direct with the others, hooked instantly. When I go super direct, "hey you're freakin hot"...they LOVE it.
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