Just want to talk you through my night last night and get your feedback!

So, I meet up with two mates at a bar in London. As I got there first (I reserved a seating area - DHV?), I was already primed by chatting up a Slovakian woman (HB 6.5) within 5 minutes of me sitting down. I told her it was ok to sit down in my reserved section until her sister turned up. Got chatting to her and she was asking me questions back about where I'm from, family etc (IOI's)

My two mates turned up (all close friends but one is my wingman) and we were catching up, drinking, laughing and generally not giving a damn about anyone else (receiving a bucketload of IOI's from women in the bar because of this)

I spotted a very pretty 2-set (HB8 + HB9) hovering just outside our seating area and was praying that the two Slovakian women would up and leave their seats as I just knew that the two hotties would take the seats.......... my prayers were answered!

The HB8 & HB9 sit down where the earlier ladies were sitting unaware that the area was reserved, so I used this as a reason to neg the HB9 who in return said "well, we are much prettier than the other ladies here anyway!". I replied by saying that they were 'alright' and 'not that much prettier' which in return got her slapping my leg and laughing etc (instant KINO & IOI).

Started fluff talk about why they were out, how they knew each other etc but all the while I'm talking to the HB9 I realise that the HB8 is sitting there on her own not speaking to anyone (she is on the other side of the HB9 and my friends are on the other side of me). I shouldn't have worried though as my wingman (the f*cking ACE wingman that he is), has seen my predicament and with no words uttered moves over the other side of the area to engage the HB8 so I can get more time with the HB9 (you're the man Coops!!!).

HB9 then tells me she has a BMW and asks me what car I drive. Now normally I never bring up cars in a conversation as I just don't see why that matters but she must have asked me 4 or 5 times (even after I was cocky & playful in responses initially by telling her 'one with 4 wheels' & one that gets me from A to A and a half'), so bearing in mind she kept on asking I told her.... a Black Audi TT 3.2 ltr Quattro Convertible, new shape & fully loaded. Was that DHV enough? Lol... She soon shut the f*ck up about cars! That was one for the team right there!!!

Halfway through the conversation, I said 'let's swap numbers' (I always say this in the middle of the conversation as it's less cheesy and catches them off guard - am I right / wrong?) and she was umming & ahhing and saying that she's never ever taken a number down in a club before, to which I said 'well, there's two points I'd like to make to that', she says ok.. I say 'well, first point is that this is a bar not a club' (with a little smirk), cue more leg slapping. 'Secondly.......(pause - look right in her eyes)....... am I too dark for you?' (she's Turkish & I'm black). Cue massive amount of laughs leaning into me, shock, humor, leg slapping etc.. she then takes my number down. Was I happy with that though? HELL NO she has all the power then and can pick & choose whether to call / text me or not. 10 minutes later I say 'I have a game to play with you' and introduce her to the 5 questions game. I say if she wins I have to do a forfeit of her choosing and if I win, she has to give me her number, she agrees, I win (of course), she calls my phone from her phone (sweet!).

So, more small talk, more kino, her slapping my ass to the beat of a tune that was playing (at this point she was seemed to be getting wasted so don't know what relevance this has if anything) and a picture gets taken of me and her (which if someone can tell me how the hell to post it on here I will show you this HB9) so I can remember the night. No kiss close (as per the wasted comment), and me and my friends leave the bar before they do.

Will anything happen? Who know's! I know from experience that Turkish girls & black guys are very rare! however, I have to say, I think I done pretty (she was super hot) but am very welcome for some feedback on other things I could've done!

Happy sarging all!

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Sorry all.. also to add that when I got her number, I texted her straight away saying 'that bloke next to you is so hot!' which got more laughs.

So, bearing in mind I already text her last night, do I wait to see if I hear from her or should I text / call today? Advice definately needed here please!

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First of all, great work. I like your style of cocky funny its not too over the top but actually funny when delivered well.
I have a few ideas to maybe achieve even better results, when they first sat down you could have talked to the HB8 first, quick opener or just give her more attention for a second. Then introduce her to your wing who joins in and move on to the HB9 (you clearly were able to make the situation funny so when your wing walks past, grab him and say: you gotta help me out with these two they sure are a handful) If you handle the complete situation rather than relying on your wing to help you, you ll be more in control.
And just ask yourself the usual questions: Could you have pushed further, was a k-close possible?

When it comes to calling her up, do it as soon as you feel like it. If its the day after maybe just do it to chat, don't even ask her out just talk for a bit. Or if she tells you something she is up to, tell her that you are in the area and could "meet and find out a bit more about another".

Well done,

Len

Cheers Len, thanks for your feedback. Me and my wingman were discussing things the day after and one of the things we thought about was isolating the two of them by getting the HB9 to come and help me with drinks at the bar. You're spot on about me talking to the HB8 though. If I would've done that more/first then perhaps more comfort would've been had.

Thanks for your comments Len, greatly appreciated.

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Hopefully (if I've done it right), you can now see the picture of the HB9 below ;-P

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Nicely done, always good to see some pictures with the report. How is the follow up going?

So far, I've attempted to call her a couple of times and rang through to voicemail. The one time I did leave a message I did get a text response to say sorry but she was out at dinner with a friend but she got home safe that night. No real contact since (I haven't been pushing it any more in fairness though as I think I have enough already), so I'm putting this beautiful specimen down as a flake.

How are things going with you/

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Its the calm before the storm for me right now. I "let go" of one of my girls last week cause she was getting a little too attached, but that's the usual way things go, after a while they do start to want commitment. It's pretty quiet in the city at the moment, because all the students are on holiday (I'm a student myself). So I'm taking a little break from sarging, just a little breather if you will, before the Edinburgh festival starts and thousands of wonderful tourists storm the city.

In order not to get bored I got myself a little challenge. Met a really cute girl, very innocent, a little shy especially because she is not great at English. Fortunately I speak a couple of languages and am strong with body language and conveying/reading intention, therefore I am actually having a lot of fun with her, because she is so eager to talk and interact!
The night I met her I k-closed and got her number, this is just over a week ago. Since then I've been trying to get further and progress has been slow but steady. I'll explain the situation: She has had a boyfriend for 4 years, from 14-18 and hasn't been with a guy since (3 years). As you can tell I have literally made her tell me all her secrets and have a couple of great dates. We've been laughing lots and I've ticked all the boxes as far as I can tell (this would also be conform with Styles list of switches). Still the furthest I got so far was after spending an 11 hour day with her and I got her down to her panties (for lack of a better word), when her cousin came back home to interrupt us.
She's been working long shifts ever since and I've therefore not been able to spend a night with her, but am consistently seeing her. I'm hoping to push some more boundaries over the weekend and be on top of my game for next week and the beginning of the festival.

In your case I wouldn't yet dismiss that fine lady. Give her another call at some point and tell her you are doing [whatever you are doing] and she should join you if she isn't busy. It's just a nice little reminder and if she ends up being free at the time she is being spontaneous with you, which is good. So if you know anything more about her, like when she would be likely to work then don't call her then.

Sorry if I high-jacked this post a bit now, but it feels like a conversation between the two of us .

Len

Good work man-she looks great! I agree that you should call this girl again but I wouldn't leave a voicemail if you already left one..negging the 9 was also a tight move-well played..where do you sarge? have you tried the verve club-covent garden? great place attracts 10's tooo!!!!

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Hey Shuggs,

I've heard good things about Covent Garden but am yet to go sarging there, so I will definately check it out.

Me and my mate / wingman normally go to Islington for nights out as there as quite a few places to go there. We've also just come back (today) from a weekend in Nottingham & Derby which was good fun!

No doubt we'll run into each other soon!

PS. Cheers Scamp!

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