I made a conscious decision to go out by myself tonight and not waste another night. Instead of turning around and driving home I did indeed go out. What happened the last time I did it a while back was I just walked into the bar or club and walked out, or just stood in one spot.

This time was different. I went out and actually did something. I danced with a lot of girls, went for a kiss on the neck and got it (although she left the dancefloor after). I met a lot of random people (both women and men). I even had a girl come up to me while I was dancing with some others and grind on me. I did more tonight than I've done when I was out with people.

Was I nervous? yes of course. Did I at one point think "why am I here by myself?" Yes, but if you let those things take over, you'll just stay in neutral as far as your game is concerned. For all you guys that might be worried about going out by yourselves, forget about it. You're gonna be nervous and you probably won't achieve total confidence, but it'll show your dedication to the game.

There was a guy that I was friendly with that thought it would be cool to follow me and these 2 chicks. Obviously I don't want other dudes leeching off my value. How do you deal with these guys? I'd like to do it without being mean or rude.

After building the value for myself I became confused about what to do or some nervousness took over. I still acted in spite of it. Also this one girl said it looked like ppl were pushing me around on the dance-floor (obviously I don't want to be perceived that way). I've decided I always need to be doing something, whether it's interacting, dancing, ect.