Ok the first thing I did walking into the place. I was waiting in line to to be let in and open two set guys, talked about ufc that night and how the fights went. Kind of a warm up to get into the talking to strangers mood. In front of me were a group of girls and one guy. I didn't know what to do then and did not even say anything. Except look at them do their girl thing.
So i walk in and start talking to more dudes as I walk into the actual place. I first go into the washroom feeling the pressure of "IT"S ON" so I used my chicken exit. (which usually is the washroom) But as I soon as i walk out of the washroom I see a two set dancing in a random open spot. I jump in and shake a little bit and said "you girls are randomly dancing in a weird spot.... Right in front of the guys washroom..." Girls said something in response but I couldn't hear them say anything at all. Then I observed how one of the girls danced and just yelled out "You have CRD" she goes what? "CRD..... Caucasian rhythm disorder" She goes WHAT!!!! all offended and yells "GET OUT OF HERE!!" I was saying something back but i don't remember but then she goes on and starts grinding up one girl walking by. Maybe it was a buddy of hers. But it seemed like she was trying to prove that she has some moves or something. I didn't make much of it so I said to her buddy next to her and said "I'm going to peace out and go to a bumping place." And walked off to the next place

I walk up these mini stairs and see this hb3 or rather 2... I dunno but she was adjusting her bra. I noticed in and said to her. "where you just giving me the titty dance?" She smiles and goes no no no, I'm just fixing my bra. I go and say "Your such a dirty tease" then soon after for some odd reason we were talking about her tits and what she randomly does.. So that got no where and walk along a head.

Then I run into Electro which was pretty cool. He introduced me to some of the other boys. I Told him whats up and whats my game plan, followed him around for a bit. Then he told me to screw off.. LOL not really but he said he was helping one of his clients out, So I took that as a hint and went on to my adventure again.

And I kept telling my self I have to do a direct opener, I have to do a direct opener. I do a half lap around the place and said Fuck I saw a group of girls that were just chilling around. Which I find out it's a stag-et party. I didn't know at the time, But I just walk and looked at one of them and went for it. Tapped her on the shoulder and Said my direct opener. She got a good kick out of it and. I think we started to hit it off, I went on saying where is the line dancing around? and where is the country music? I thought this was Ranchmans not Ronchymans. And I got a giggle from that. I am not sure If it was me it seemed like her whole group just blocked us off? ~ *I'm not sure how to read this situation? Was it the OK go a head and take her? or was it your not getting into this group? I'm just not sure*~ She goes and ask me So who are you here with?. I respond with .." uh... do you see any one next to me?" she says no and looks at me weird "ha ha thats because they are up and about." ~*So with that response I'm not sure if that was the best Idea to even say that.*~ then talk some more about random stuff then I asked "so whats the occasian?" ~*at this point I find out it's a stag-et party. Then i'm not sure what I asked but, I think she fired off a shit test saying "I have a boyfriend" I'm not sure how I reacted but I think I just fired off saying "So how many times have you been to this club?". I think that was a chode move? or I dunno?. Soon after that the convo just died out and I just said I'm going to peace and go out and dance. She said alright and then rejoined her group. And I took off into the crowd.

Open A few more sets saying something random. I don't even remember and just left the place. The last part is a blur but I was move group to group fast like as if i was the awkward pop in and out. I kinda lost so momentum. But I thought I already went through my high and mid points already and just left.

If I look back on all the conversations and stuff. I never introduced my self saying "My name is Dan" or even asking for theirs. I never bother to reading their body language. By doing so I think I can either stick around and or them saying go away? And I didn't realize how my body language was doing. Was I leaning in to much or what? Like It felt like I was on auto-pilot for the most part. Or In the sets I opened Never bothered to get to know the group?


What could I have done different with these 2 main sets the two set and the stag-et group? I keep thinking of what I should of been looking for but I don't know.

So what do you guys think I should of done?

Wow. There's so much I have to say. How long have you been in pua???

You sound VERY unsure about EVERYTHING. even in your posts. You need to be decisive, girls like that.
First of all, what's with your openers? There's hundreds of openers on this site!! USE THEM! As Mystery says, "I gave you shitloads of material!".
Second. You used a direct opener?? Just say "hey I need to get back with my friends in a sec, but I need a girls opinion on something..." Open the WHOLE group.
NEG YOUR TARGET. she needs to feel like you aren't interested in getting with her.The conversation should flow from there. Slowly show interest in her.
Next, the shit test about the bf.. She wouldn't ask that if you used negs. She would use it later on if you #-close or k-close. Look on the forum for ways around that.
Never open with your name, they really don't care who you are.
I may have missed some stuff, I typed it on an iPod and accidently deleted some of it. Hope this helps! Do your homework on PUA. You'll get it down.

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First, the group should have been opened with an opinion opener, get everyone involved, then your valid to take the target once enough comfort has been built.

Secondly I take it you were drinking? Hence you not remembering bits and pieces? If so, sarge sober, results will become better.

First night of sarging and you make quite a few approaches.. thats pretty good so well done on that!

I do agree I think you have to be more confident and take control a bit more however I think the more you go out and talk and meet girls the more you will get into it.

Have a look on the forums for some new material or get a book or 2.

Keep up the approaches and good luck!