ok guys get ready for this. ok so me and this girl have been taking for a while and she knows i like her. anyway. i was in the weight room after school and she came in and talked to me. we lifted a little bit and talkd causualy bc there were other ppl in the weight room. when they left we sat on the bench press bench and started to talk. i told her she could rest her legs on my lap(she had soccer prior to this) is started to rub her thighs and legs getting the back of the knee. we were flirting and making cute faces at eachother and she then procedded to wrap her legs around my waist. she told me to take my shirt off and touchd my chest and arms. and she def. liked it. lol. we held hands and laughed and talked for two hours. there were so many iois it was crazy. i then procedded to walk her out to her car. we hugged and held onto eachother for a while and i went in for a kiss and she rejected me. she said im sry i cant. bye. wtf did i do wrong lol. i mean im not too upset bc of the time we had b4 the rejected k close. but any way any thoughts? plz help!!! shit test?

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It's not a shit test, more likely it's the need to say no so that she doesn't feel like a slut. Especially if all that other stuff was a first for you. Last minute resistance (even in relation to just a kiss) is almost always about her feeling a need to "not be easy." She wants to kiss you, but also wants to respect herself.

Best move would probably have been something like:

"I know, you're right, this is way too fast, it's crazy." Maybe take a step back there, maybe not. Def. not a full on freeze out. "It's just this incredible energy going on between us right now, it makes you want to forget caution..."

Something along those lines.