Ok this is going to be a weird story but one worth reading. I have been a PUA for about 6 months or so and I would say that my game is pretty tight, 9see my other posts). I can approach women with no problem and have talked to more HB's then I ever have before and im current F'ing this very HB9 that is a bartender at a very upscale bar where I live. About 3 months ago I opened this 3 set at a bar, ran perfect game on this HB blonde 8, and number closed no problem. We start hanging out and its all great I F her after a few night and she seams really into me. So then she drops that she is moving away basically for good, and just wants me to know. I explain to her that its fine and we can keep hanging out until she leaves. So she leaves and I continue to talked to her and game other girls at the same time thinking its all good when she comes back for the weekend or what ever we can hang out, it'll be fun because she is a super cool girl to be around. Well she comes home and things are TOTALLY different, she basically won't talk to me at all events though she invites me to hang out (figure that one out) and it’s more or less uninterested the whole weekend. So its Sunday night and she is leavening the next day and im basically ready to tell her hey its been fun, have fun where you are living now I’ll see you around, and just end it. Well I start to leave and she just goes well I guess I’ll see you around thanksgiving. I'm like what the fuck you haven’t talked to me the whole time and you want to hang out on your next break. Well I could go on forever but it just goes to show that some times you cannot prepare for every situation. I let you know if or how this pans out. And if you actually read through this whole post and would like to share some advice please do. Don't worry I do not have one-its, but I would like to keep this one alive.

Sarge on!

What did she say when you wtf'd her?

she said that she was sorry for the way she acted but she didn't think we were on the same page as far as how serious we were. she thought that i was taking it way more serious then her or how we discussed, which was that she is moving and we will see where it goes. I was taking it that way but maybe did not seam that way to her. I think in this situation she put a defense based on the fact that she felt as though i was coming on to strong, and she wanted to make it clear (in a weird way) that this was nothing serious but she still liked me and likes being around me. Where this goes from here who knows. I'm not to worried becuase she did move away and plans to come back but who knows how long that will be or where I will be.

Sarge On!

sounds like she has all the control here and you're chasing her. you really need to freeze her out and focus on other chicks.

yes sir you are def right on that one. She is in control, or thinks she is. i called her up yesterday and told her that I did not deserve to be treated the way she treated me over the weekend. and she basically was like "why do you have to keep bringing this up, i was just starting to get over what happened" like it was my fault. Well thats not gonna fly, especially with he distance factor. She wants to send me a e-mail or start talking to me again thats good, but other wise im done and def gonna deal with that shit. i left the conversation by just being like well have a good night I'll talk to you soon. So it is what it is. going away this weekend with a ton of ladies and not to many fellas so I'm sure I'll be fine

I Believe u needed to use a Jealousy plot line when she was back. I think the flame died down a bit

Hard luck bro. Trust me women are too confusing, its like every emotion they have is the equivilent of whatever emotion we have magnified 3x's. The speed of their escilation also becomes faster with more of them around.

When they are worked up like this dont bother looking for logic in them, that gets throw out. Also I believe that alot of us (i know i have untill recently) underestimated how much a woman can notice finite detail, its actually rediculous, they can read right through.

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How exactly does a freeze out work? Ya the jealousy card should have been used, I started to slack off and became a afc with her. O well. But should I freeze her out till she starts talking to me? Or should i freeze her out for a while and then talk to her? I'm thinking i freeze her out till she talks to me and if not. then it is what it is.

Ok fellas i didn't get a respons from before and I was still wondering what you guys think. Its been about 2 weeks since the last time we talked and from the amount of time we hung out i know she is just as sutuborn as me. I was gona shot her a e-mail or call her and just say that Ive been busy but after her friends from home (who are going to visit) leave on sunday give me a call.

So is that a good way to go about the freeze out? thanks

Honestly I'd recommend waiting her out. Let her contact you, if she doesn't no big deal you've got a HB9 already wrapped up right? (Bartender's wrapped around your finger must be money. I haven't had that but there is no better pre-selection than a chick seeing a hot bartender fawning all over you.) If this other girl is gonna flip constantly like this she's not worth your time. Move on get some more girls. Either she'll get jealous and throw herself at you or chalk it up to a great memory.

you are right about the HB9 and its def cool shit. I went out with her and 2 of her bartender friends last night and my buddies were defiantly impressed LOL. And you right about this other HB I'm just gona let it slide.

Sarge on!!