Hi guys,

I'm just getting crazy. I met a girl in salsa club last sunday, I dated her yesterday in another one. Today she came to my house and just at the condon time she told me she has a serious boyfriend. Well that happens often I suppose but it s a really special situation, i'm french, 23 i live in greece and i don t speek greek very well. She is 28, fucking hot and she just speeks greek. We can t have complicated conversation...
I don t know, if I can see her and try to finish it..or if it's too late. If it s possible how to make it happen. I invited her to another club tomorrow, she accepted..but what can I do ? she has a car, she will bring me back home, how do I have to treat her ? do I kiss her again ? Have I to create a distance ? it's the first time it happens to me It s 4:30 am here in greece, I m too frustrated, I won t sleep !

Than you for your precious help

Just a small thing, whenever you have the chance, see how how long you can keep your face to her lips. Note her breathing, then at the very last minute pull away. Then act like nothing just happened.

I'll let these guys go through the whole freezing out properly, just try not to do your head in over it, 'sounds like she's window shopping.

if your looking for m advise(no one said u were but here it is)

first thing u hsould do is try to learn some greek it will help loads

next.try to get some kino,if shes ina relationship allready and shes still on u then make her try to qualify.

finally,remember to make yourself the prize not her,she will notice if she wants you.

best of luck and i wish u the best.

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Tanks guys for the advices, I will see her tonight. We go to a latin club again. because we can't communicate to much, I think it s a good place to make her try to qualify. I ll dance with other girls and i ll try to make her jealous. She left her green cigarets in my room yesterday, After she got me back home, I ll ask her if she wants to burn one before leaving...well, I hope it works...

We almost fucked yesterday night, I think that if she wants to see me again, it's not to play pro evolution soccer.

I ll tell you the result tomorrow

Oh, just remember, the jealousy routine is VERY touchy. Don't overdo it, or she will simply find someone else to dance with and you may find yourself on the recieving end of this. Remember she already has a guy to go home to.

Show that your interested in her, just also show that your interested in any other offers that may come along too. Very important. Don't completely snob her off. Iv'e seen this move crash a fair few times.

Hi ! It worked finaly ! We went to this club, I did my best to have fun with her, I showed her some new figures, she was happy. I waited for her to kiss me, then I danced with some other girls, she did the same and she came back and told me that I'll have to speak in french when I will fuck her.
Great ! she paid everything and it was a very good night

Hi ! It worked finaly ! We went to this club, I did my best to have fun with her, I showed her some new figures, she was happy. I waited for her to kiss me, then I danced with some other girls, she did the same and she came back and told me that I'll have to speak in french when I will fuck her.
Great ! she paid everything and it was a very good night

Congrats bro! Sounds like you played it perfectly... You didn't let her little last minute B.S. get you down, you danced with other girls, and most importantly you just said "fuck it" and went have fun. Couldn't have done it better. BTW In my experience language barriers are a good thing more often than not. Opening is the hardest part but its a breeze after that. Mainly because it forces you to go back to the basics and focus on what important even if you don't realize it. And that important thing is that you communicate with body language and tonality rather than words. It forces you to show her your sexuality. Anyways, great job bro...