I am in a college coop party and I walk to the bathroom line which is pretty long (has about 10 people) and I strike up a small conversation with the HB8 about how she needs to pee really bad. I suggest that maybe she should try going upstairs bathroom, and the coop guards might let her in if she's hot enough.

She goes and comes back obviously didn't make it in. On her way back she already doesn't really seem into me at all because she gets back into line turned kind of away from me. Finally she turns towards me and I make some remark about how she must have not been hot enough to get in, and I say it with a big natural smile. I think she smiles back but I don't quite remember.

Then she turns away again, seems to have definitely lost interest. She is playing with her tongue flitting it in and out. I say "Is that a tongue piercing?" and she says "yeah." And turns away again, expressionless.

Note: There were very few hot girls at the coop party, and she was one of them. UC Berkeley is rightfully infamous for its lack of hot girls. She was dressed semi-skanyk, not very slutty except for some cuts in her lower legs of pants.

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I wouldnt say you really failed tbh, the girl just wasnt into you from the offset, very much a losing battle.

You negged her pretty good with the not being hot enough line, but I think one thing you did wrong was not saying it as soon as she got back in line. Fine she's turned away from you but you shouldnt have waited till she turned round, it makes it seem like you were waiting for it just so you could pass the comment, almost too thought out. I woulda done it as soon as she came back, providing she was close enough that you wouldnt be shouting it too loud. It woulda been a good shotgun neg. Also the tongue piercing thing wasn't a good move, someone's got something in their tongue, pretty obvious it'll be a tongue piercing and so it just shows you're asking about it to strike up a conversation with her.

Just my thoughts, I probably woulda fucked up in field too tbh.

I see, thanks for the response. I guess the real question is how to get a girl "into you from the offset."

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You should have been like:

"Is that a tongue ring?"
"Yeah"
"What kind of sexy things can you do with it"
(if she comes back with anything other than positive feedback)
"Then why the fuck did you bother getting it?"

Brilliant by my standards. Thanks.

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