| 9:15pm to 12:30am Mean Fiddler, Friday 26.3.10, 3 hours spent
Goals
•Aproach straight away
•Aproach 10 sets and transition
•Ask at least 2 girls for their numbers
•At least 2 dance floor sets
This weekend Is all about conguoring AA more then anything else.
Me and fonzy1 arrived at fiddler around 9:10 pmish we walked through the dance
floor section and out side, straight away I noticed a 2 set sitting down.
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Aproach 1: Lasted 5-10minutes not sure how long.
Me: Hey guys (squating) I just wanted to ask you's out of the 2 of you how
much have you dyed your hair? - Not my exact opener as I stuffed It up at the start due to nerves.
Hb-target: (half smiling) I've dyed It a lot but I remember It.
Hb8: This Is my natural hair colour
(Both were quite hot) - I don't like rating girls.
Me: Oh I saw on the news that 3 out of every 5 women above 18 can't remember
their natural hair colour and I just had to ask you's as you seem cool.
Target: Thank you (seems to be In happy zone with drinking)
Me: So how do you's know each other? - I was going to do best frieds test but
a 3rd girl came along and Inturupted a bit I almost ejected but thats when
my target said.
Her: We know each other most our lives, But I've known you a lot longer,
(she was Introducing me to other 2 and was friendly:))
Me: Thinking fuck yeh, High five her.
Me: Did you set yourself any new years resoulution this year?
Her: Yeh to quit smoking.
Me: Eww you smoke that's gross
Her: Yeh I know, why I'm trying to quit.
A couple things was said after this but can't remember, This was the first set
of the night and done as soon as I entered the club I could of and should of
number closed but I wussed out and ejected:( - They were really friendly and the 2 other girls didn't
mind me talking to my target what so ever, but like I said I ejected - Fucking spewing actually.
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2nd Aproach: Dance floor - Not much of an opener but It's dance floor what to do?. Lasted 20 seconds haha.
Me: Going straight In, Hey guys, tap on shoulders (they stop dancing give me a weired look) I stalled at what I wanted
to do but just said "HIGH FIVE!" they complied and gave me a high five - Damn dance floor Is hard but
I'm going to conquor It just like everything else.
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3rd Aproach: Lasted 1 minute
I opened a 2 set that Fonzy1 already opend and failed with, I wanted to see If 2
friends could still open the same set and weather or not they were as cold as they
were for Fonzy1 and Me? - I don't think they new were friends though.
Me: Hey guys (squating again) I just have to ask you's, how on earth do
you guys wear those high heels?
Girls: Just look at each other, don't really say anything and they seem cold.
Me: Is It just like the simpsons episode where you go Heal toe Heal toe or Is It more of a stomping motion?
Girls: Nothing they didn't really respond at all - This has worked several times b4 - Hmmm?
Perhaps wrong opener ? maybe not enough energy when opening the set, who knows?.
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4th Aproach: Lasted roughly 8-10minutes.
Me, Fonzy, Chill69 were just sitting there against a rail talking away I noticed a 2 set behind me.
Me: Hey guys can I get your attention for a second?.
Hb8: nodding sure
Me: Do you guys know In those horror movies how there Is always a guy that dies first?, Well out of the 3 of us
who do think will die first? (Credit this opener to Dean for this one)
Hb8: POints to chill69, (me laughing Inside thinking poor chill)
Not sure exctly what happened after this, as we all entered the set, I was eventually getting a bum dance with
HbTarget, she was fucking fine. I had my arm around her a bit and I could tell she didn't mind, after fonzy and
chill69 entered the set I was realising It wasn't going anywhere (not just because of them) and even mentioned It to Fonzy1,
I tried the guessing number game but they didn't really want to but got my target to and I guess wrong, boy did she have
attitude with that haha, after that they ejected b4 I was going to get my targets number or at least try.
(Going from a natural flowing conversation to routines and esp etc Is not a good Idea)
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Highlights:
Being able to achieve one of my goals for the night which was to open straight away and transition.
2 out of the 4 sets I opened I was able to transition and have a fun Interaction, both I could of
asked for numbers but didn't. So I guess that's a sticking point?.
Even though I'm trying to follow Mystery method style, the 2 main sets that hooked was more natural
flowing conversation, which Is where I want to eventually get to, but wish to stick with MM until I get good.
Downside:
I still had AA after doing those 4 sets (there were also to many breaks In between sets) and saw quite a lot of
hotties that I wanted to aproach but couldn't,so 2morrow night at Ivy one new goal will be added,
aproach girls who I'm really really attracted to.
Excuses I was coming up with:.
We have been sitting/standing next to the girls already for 20 minutes or what ever and felt like I couldn't aproach
and nothing I use would work, I know bad to have In your head but thats was I was thinking.
Oh there Is a guy In there with them, I'll never get anywhere. Fuck apparently mixed sets are meant to be the easiest
but still can't do them. This will be added to my goals In a couple weeks.
Not beleiving that my opener will work In that perticular situation, (you never know unless you try).
Lessons learned:
Girls really don't care what you say as long as you can Entertain them
If you are winging with wings, and the numbers are un-even say 3-2 3 guys and 2 girls one guy
should always leave (less active one or last one that entered the set) and go back to doing what ever,
Interactions never go good when un even sets are done - If It's the other way around, Ie: 3girls 1guy It doesn't mattter.
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Saturday 27.3.10, Location Argyle (11pm to 12am) and Ivy (12am to 2:30am)
Aproach 1:
Me and fonzy went to Argyle pretty late around 11pm and stayed for an hour or so, Fonzy did a couple aproaches
me I tried to go nataural on a 2set,
Me: Hey guys hows you all doing tonight/ are you's celebrating anything tonight?.
Girls: didn't really respond to anything.
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We left Argyle and went to Ivy (yes at long last I went to IVy) I managed to do 6 sets.
Aproach 2:
Me: I used my hair colour opener which I used above,
Girls: It was only one girl who seemed Interested In me and I felt like I couldn't continue due to that reason, so I ejeceted.
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After that and trying to follow MM style I started to beleive that maybe MM style wouldn't work In ivy because on how
loud It was, and I decided to try a few natural openers which are the same as above
Me: Hey guys how you going tonight? etc etc - That's what I beleive are natural openers anyway
nothing was hooking what so ever and after doing around 6 aproaches or so I got AA and didn't do much the
rest of night.
On the way home we opened a few sets by just asking them were argyle Is etc etc to my quite surprise all of them
responded positive and even looked like we could of picked them up, but how to transition from there?.
Highlights Of the night:
•Going to Ivy for first time was awsome, the music was great I was loving It. The women are woweeeee type
•I got around 6-7 smiles from really attractive women, how ever most of them were moving sets and I had
no Idea what to do In those situation, but just getting those smiles made the night more fun for me.
I also got a lot of good stares from women but due to having AA, I didn't aproach them thinking nothing would work.
Excuses I was coming up with:.
1 - Not believing my material would work (due to loud music) and going natural Is bad for me because
Im not that great at It yet.
2. Not going up to girls but INstead trying to find the best high flowing spot In the club where girls will just
come past us so we can chat em up. This worked for some extent but It's not the best attitude to have
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Sunday 28.3.10, Location Albion Hotel Parramatta, 2 hours spent.
Aproaches done 6-8
Goals for night
•Aproach 5 sets and transition
•Ask at least 2 girls for numbers
Aproach 1: I waited for fonzy for a bit but then thought fuck It, and went and sat down next to a 2 set
Me: Hey guys Is this place like this every sunday (me trying natural openers? lol)
Girls: Yeh In about 1/2hour this place will be pumping It's a really cool place for a sunday.
Me: Are ok awesome:) this Is just my 2nd time out for a sunday and heard this place was cool
Girls: are ok sweet.
Me: Nothing couldn't think of anything else regarding natural.
I can't remember all the aproaches I did, me and fonzy1 were bouncing off each others aproaches, I did one
he did one and we were pumped up after about 5-6aproaches each I think I did a total of 8 but only 2 really hooked.
Aproach 2: Me: Hey guys (hbtarget saw me coming) I just have to ask you, have you guys ever dyed your hair
b4?
Hbtarget: (looking at each other) Yeh I have why do you ask?
Me: Well I saw on the news that 3 out of 5 women above 18 can't remember their natural hair colour and I saw
you's from over there and couldn't tell weather yours was dyed or not and thought I'd come ask.
Girls: Are ok thats cool I remember what mine Is.
Me: Fucking freezing up because their male friend came In, even though he didn't do anything or say antying I
froze and ejected.
Aproach 3: Fonzy1 opened a 2set and I thought after a minute or so I'll come In and see If I can wing him, this
I think Is the first time we've asctually winged each other like this b4, we lasted up around 10 minutes and
since It was fonzy's set I thought I'd let him do most of talking and get Him to close. Unfortunatly no
one closed but this I beleive was our best set for the night so far.
Aproach 4: Me: Hey (looking suspicous) weren't you here last weekend?
Hbtarget: Shaking her head no I wasn't
Me: Are ok no worrys - not knowing where to go from there lol.
Aproach 5: Me: Hey guys I was just wondering, does this place always go like this on sundays?
Hbtarget: Yeh It does all the time It's a really nice place.
Me: Are nice, are you guys celebrating anything
Hbtarget: Nah just love the Idea of going out rather then staying In.
Me: blah blah blah, I can't remember the rest of the conversation but It did go well,
Fonzy1 backed me up this time as He new I was running out of natural flowing conversation
and joined IN, this lasted for around 10minutes or so roughly, I should of asked for number
but my target ended taking a walk to use her phone, probably cause she was getting gamed by
both me and fonzy1 lol.
There were a couple other aproaches but didn't go all that great, and IN the 2 hours we were
there we proved you can open heaps of girls In just a short amount of time, I can't wait
till I'm able to hold conovs for up to 20minutes.
This weekend was all about conquoring AA, I still had some hesitation, epecially at Ivy
on saturday and even In Argyle, but Sunday night was the best night with very little hesitation
since I haven't yet conquored AA there will be a part 2 next week:).
Every week will be something different, AA Is going to take a little bit more then the rest.
Highlights:
Sunday was my best night, with little to no hesitation I did have some so can't say I didn't have
any hesitation.
Being able to go natural was a plus as thats where I do want to go.
Downside:
1. Not asking for numbers next weekend Is all about doing that.
2. Not transitioning IN all my aproaches
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