Hey all,
Last night I went out with a natrual PUA, one of those guys that just "has it natrually" his natrual body language shows that he is the man, the true alpha male, he walks through the club and girls stare at him and when he says hello they get nervous, his conversation flows natrually and it was hard not to be impressesd

The problem though was I thought i was making progress in this PUA game but he just outdid me so so bad that i just looked, i dunno-
I feel nervous and my body langauge shows this even though i consciously try to change it i dont feel in my natrual setting i feel out of place so i dont act confident.
I dont have Approach Anxiety or anything my problem is portraying confidence and feeling comfortable when with the group- it wasnt so much being with this guy i get told i think too much at the best of times so now to my question...

If i continue on this PUA path will i get to a point where eveything "flows", i feel comfortable, my game flows natrual and I dont have to worry about what anybody thinks/dosent think about me?

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

It's cool to see a guy in his element. Appreciate that the dude has good game, but don't compare yourself to him. Comparing yourself to others is a surefire way to be miserable. Be content with your own progress and victories and enjoy it when other people have unique skills.

your right i should not compare myself to him, ill look at it this way- he has shown me what i strive to become. I will get to his level perhaps even outdo him. It gives me confidence to see a guy in his element, it proves it can be done- that is when i think from a different perspective

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'