| ok, so i went bar hopping in the nyc last night with some buds. I was drunk as shit and going up to the cutest girls i could find around. i wasnt succesful last night in getting a girl but i def felt i was at least...a pressence i guess. im wondering what i can improve.
so A., when I would go up to girls, i cant remember any lines, but Im sure it was like a loud, eye contact, humorous kind of tone. when i would go into groups id be obnoxious and sarcastic as hell (the guys didnt like this much lol i thought of the whole thing, "control the guys, u control the women...but i guess that means they have to like me not want me to get the fuck out of there lol)
so anyways, because that approach didnt succeed, i mean i tlaked to plenty of girls and got teased plenty, what can i change? im being forward and going up to anybody fast, and talking and being fun and crazy...it didnt pull out though.
a specific example late in the night is my friend and i walkeed into a bar and immediately i went over to these two chicks sitting down. i thought the one on the right was cuter so i went to the lefts side. i ended uyp chatting with her and she was.....wait for it....42! she only told me this later in the night when she accuratly explained she could be my mother (this was part of the rejection)
anyways, we talked for like an hour and there was def kino and IOI's (she was squeezing my hand) and our legs were around each others. but then, as aforementioned, she said she thought she was too old for me and booked. no number.
HOW CAN I IMPROVE! thanks much PUA's _________________ Blue Blazer
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