March 14, 2010, Encore Superclub, Manila, Philippines

so went there saturday night with 4 guy friends and 4 girl friends (a friend's officemates). we were in the same club the night before but i mostly worked the girls we were with. established rapport and got along well with them so we were enjoying ourselves the moment we got in. we got a vip table that's elevated and we were dancing facing the dance floor. everyone can see us. now of my guy friends, only one dances with the girls so there'd be times when i'm dancing with 2, even 3 girls at a time. thank heavens for social proof! i noticed that some of the girls in the middle of the room were looking our way since we were very visible. one of them was clearly looking at me, watching me dance with the girls. so i gave a smile and she smiled back.

now we transfered to the main room where it was packed. there we saw another friend with 2 chicks. they joined our table earlier but i didn't get the chance to talk to them since i was dancing. i walk up to them and dance with the girls. kiss one on the neck, which was captured on cam. damn. she was cool about it and she didn't say anything.

before i joined the 3, our big group of 8 found a spot right in the middle of the dance floor. i felt someone hit me from behind and when i looked back, 2 drunk girls. great, a new target. one was only a 5, may be 6 at best, the other was an 8, but her huge boobs give her a .5 bonus so she's an 8.5 haha. anyway, i didn't open them right away, went on dancing with the group until i saw the 3. when i came back, i noticed they weren't really dancing anymore and just playing with the waiters. a few minutes later, an opportunity opened. she was leaning on the cocktail table, looking the way drunk girls do. she was about a meter away from me so talking would be hard. used NVC instead. (thanks to gambler for his videos, the bit about NVC convos was what i used - this shit is pure gold).

i asked her if she was okay, she said yes. then i told her to dance. she smiled. i signaled her to come to me. she gave it back. and so i did. i walked up to her and we danced. no words, no openers, no nothing. put my hand on her lower back, which i always do when dancing or talking with someone (kino every chance you get, even if you're not gaming the chick). we dance real close, her tits against my abdomen, she's just a little over 5 ft, if not 5 ft even, i'm 5'10". then all of a sudden, her friend separates us, tells me "i'm sorry but she's my best friend." then scoffs at her friend. i walk away and rejoin my friends. a couple of minutes later, i saw her come near me again so i walk up to her and ask what her friend's deal was. before she can answer, i saw the hen running towards us then pulls and drags the HB back. she shouts at her again and tell her to get her shit together. the bitch pissed me off so i just joined my friends again, i was working 2 girls from there so it wasn't really much of a loss. (man i miss saying that. it feels nice to have abundance mentality back. and the chicks see it and gravitate towards you).

anyway, the main reason i wrote this FR is to get some insights as to how i could've dealt with the mother hen. i know i didn't act like a pua by turning my back and walking away from a chick. i'm sure i would've f-closed her if not for the bitch. i didn't care last night but today is different. she had a very very nice rack. and looked pretty young too. probably 18 on my estimate.

so please please give me tips as to how to neutralise mother hens. especially aggressive hostile ones. she wasn't hostile towards me but was to her friend.

thanks!

Sounds like you had the makings of a good night. Just to clarify - did you actually do anything other than start to dance with this girl? Did you meet her friends or did you just catch her attention through some nonverbal stuff and start to dance?

Regardless, the problem in your situation probably is that you did not win the group before you isolated the friend (whether isolating her was your choice or hers). If you DHV'd to the entire group you would have won them over and the hens would have let you isolate one of their friends.

Another thought - after the first rescue, you could have engaged one of your friends as a wing or even merged your whole group into their set to keep the obstacles occupied while you isolated your target.

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i agree with you on this smartbomb. i should've built rapport with her group before i isolated her but the way things happened didn't give me a chance to open the group. they were far from each other and our NVC called for me to go for her immediately. they were a 5-set and 1 was gay. i should've used the gay guy as a pivot since none of them would feel threatened by me chatting up their gay friend.

i could've used some of my friends as wing but then everyone was already having fun with everyone that none of them were looking to meet anyone else. plus none of them practice systematic PU. it's just hit or miss when they approach most of the time. as for them joining our group, i don't think that would've worked. one, there was a table separating them from us. second, our group made a circle of death.

thanks for your comment smartbomb. been a while since i read any PU stuff so it served as a refresher for me.