So, just turning 21 not too long ago I have no excuses for avoiding night clubs and bar. Until now, I have not even attempted to run game on anyone at such venues. I have no excuses, and I went into tonight hoping to get a foot in the door into what is night game.

I was invited to this bar by a coworker of mine. I've never been to the bar and always heard good things about it. However, I never checked it out because I don't like going to bars alone. THhis was my oppurtunity.

I showed up a few minutes early before my friend and ordered a beer. Usually, I don't like drinking when I'm trying to game chicks but I felt a little nervous- so the beer would calm my nerves down. As I'm drinking I scope a two set of brunettes. One was a 6 and the other an 8. I figured I'd try to open them while waiting for my friends. I opened with an opinion opener about a situation I'm going through about girls wanting me to be there roommate. It went so-so- but nothing really clicked. Pretty lame opener, but it was all I could think of. As we were kind of talking about it I saw my friends show up so I ejected and said nice to meet you guys. I never saw them the rest of the night.

My friends show up and I bullshit for a while. I meet the majority of the people they came with as I didn't know many of them. It was weird, because this bar had a majority of black and asian people and I was the minority being white. I tried to not let it get to me- but at times I felt out of place. My friend was pointing out a group of three girls, a blonde6, brunette 8 and a brunette 9. I walked over without thinking going to open them. I didn't even know what I was gonna say and next thing I know I'm right next to them by the bar and I open with a lame version of the jealous girlfriend. It clicked alright. My main goal was trying to get them to come have drinks with my friends and I. We talked a minute about crazy girlfriends and how my friend should run away from the crazy girl. I asked them how they knew each other and said I have to get back to my friends. They asked me where they were at, and I pointed over to where they were at and started walking- as I was walking I turned back and said, "Hey, come with me I'll introduce you." As I said that four black dudes rolled up and swooped in- taking over the set. I was thrown off, but I just ejected as I was leaving.

After that happened- I was in my head a good deal of the night. I was just sitting there drinking a beer and my friends were all wondering what happened with those girls. Apparently, they knew those dudes and that was it. I didn't make a big deal out of it. To get out of my head I did something completely out of the ordinary. I saw a HB8 at the bar by herself. I saw this girl earlier in the night and guys were all over her buying her drinks. I went up to her and offered to buy her a drink. I ordered a shot of patron and a water. I gave her the water and took the shot right in front of her and said nice meeting you and walked off smiling. She was shocked. I couldn't tell if she was pissed off or what, but I thought it was hilarious. Later I moved to the dance floor and saw her and she was all up on my nuts. Funny how shit like that happens. At this point I was faded and dancing with this other girl who I pulled to the side and fluffed with, and she pulled me on the dance floor and literally broke me off. I'm an alright dancer- enough to hold my own- but this girl was good. I pulled off to the corner and talked a minute- she said she was mad at me for not buying her a drink and basically getting her a water. I laughed shrugging, saying, "I don't even know you- why would I buy you a drink. " I pointed to some random dude and said that guy will probably do it. Obviously, I made an impression on her because she asked me to buy her a drink and I said if she bought me one I might buy her one. I got a beer from her. After I got the beer I chugged it down and my friends were leaving- and I was tired. I said, "I'll get you a drink next time." I handed her my phone and she game me her number.

Main thing I learned is to not give a fuck what people think. Reguardless if I was one of the few white dudes in there, just go in there with a rock hard frame and don't get shook up over stupid shit. I don't need to get rattled over one bad set- especially when there's so many other girls.

Next time- I want to open more sets and actually control the interaction rather than being controlled.