DAY 1

I was casually sitting, reading a book while i noticed this girl walking past me, looking at me and smiling. I didn't understand what was going on cuz i was tired from the night before so i smiled back and kept to myself.

THE NEXT DAY

SAME THING AS DAY 1

she smiled and heres how what happened

HER: [smile]
ME: "you just gonna keep smiling at me everyday, or are you gonna come, sit down and talk to me?"
HER: "umm... ok"
ME: i told her something about a class im taking and how its interesting and shit like that and then i did the cube on her. (i been wanting to test it out for a while, and let me tell you, its a lot of work and memorization so i dont like it lol)
HER: YEA how did you know? thats true. yea thats true too. no that isnt true...
ME: [dramatic pause as if offended] fluff about her, her hobbies all that crap
HER:blah blah blah (looks me over again and smiles) blah blah
ME: mini freeze out to see if she re-initiates (i think it was too early)
HER: some stupid shit i cant remember, very brief [bell rings] (BTW im in school)
ME:"it was nice meating you"
HER: yea it was nice meating you too Philos ill see you later
ME: "maybe ill see you another day in the halls"
HER: giggles and leaves


i think i could have number closed with her if not even a kiss close or fuck close. she talked to her friends about me because i heard my name and saw her turn red. i didnt want to do any of this because this one other girl i was interested in was sitting right across the hall from me and i didnt want her to think i was gonna get the 8 i was talking to so i just left it at a conversation.


does anyone see room for improvement? if so what can i do next time to make a similar situation work? what did i do wrong? what did i do right?

any advice is helpful.

Thanks,

-Philos

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The willingness and smile should of already given you clear IOI's. One thing to remember is that in this game, you should capitalize on every single opportunity.

Reading over your little encounter I noticed the following:

1. Not enough negs seeing that she is a HB8 as you noted...
2. No kino at all where the opportunities were quite abundant even in school.
3. Way to early on the freezeout as you havent reached the hook point
4. K-Closed or F-Closed??? Set realistic goals for yourself and keep in mind that you werent in the situation of a k-close or a f-close in any way. Rather focus on getting the #-close and then moving up as you progress to the 2nd day.

This is just my opinion so I hope this helped you...

-Jaybaby

thanks for the reply and i appreciate it but i knew she likes me and i got her number since then and K closed with her, shes supposed to come over this weekend! she txted me with some bullshit that implied she wanted more than that. ill psot what happened later. i was just wondering if there were significant thigns i shoud have done better?

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No Tomorrow