| Tonight was pretty bad. I tried 2 times and i didn't end up with anything, but experience.
First
Went to a bar, ordered cramberry juice and went straight for a table.
1 Guy: Jake, 3 Girl: Jess(Blond), Kat (Brunnette), Ana (Black). Openning (Instincts one) didn't go so well, i stumbled on another table while sitting with them and dropped my glass. My openning was bad, because i told them i came from another bar from my friend who's the victim. Ana was curious and kept asking me how, what, when, who. My story was now vague and i screwed up, but not to the point where they found out. I recovered, even thought i knew that i was lying. I kino'ed and neg a bit to my target Jess. When i told them them i was going to smoke, Kat decided to come with me. So i switched targets. She had some IOI on me, but nothing that made me sure i can #-Close. I said i had a nice chat and left.
Second
Went to another bar, ordered the same. I was nervous for this one... 5 girls in one table (I like going for girls only table). I choked... I didn't choke for 10 minutes, i choked for 30 fucking minutes. It was the worst, but i came up with a sheet of things i need to do and improve, while sitting down drinking my cramberry.
Once i walked up to them, i opened with the ex-girl shoe box. Went well, the conversation was good. I kino'ed my target much more, but still not enough and nothing that made her think i was sexually interested in her. All went good, but after that shoe box conversation, i just choked... I couldn't say anything to my target. There was a bit of negging involved also, i think i did bediocre (bad/mediocre). I couldn't isolate the target, because i didn't have any great isolation strategy. I asked if she wanted to smoke, she said no and i left.
Comments
I know what i need to improve. Being cocky funny, Sexually Kino'ing, Secually Teasing, negging more with cockyness, but funny at the sametime. I had no Disqualifications so i need good ones. Gay wont work on me, i look too much like a brute... I also have to get something called slot machine theory going.
Mind you all, this was done in a bar, where every one was sitting... Another thing to add is negging. The moment i said Jess was cruel for her opinion, she went and said: 'Why?!, i just had an opinion!!!
I could have continued to another bar/club, but was tired and didn't want to waste money on drink i really didn't want.
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