hey guys just started reading about pick up so very much a newbie.

Theres this girl, i was sarging her as a total AFC for about 6 months lol, we were friends, then and now are pretty close. but she has a BF of two years.

But we always talked about how we would get married, and how many kids we would have, and she would say things like, "i'm more interested in how we make the children" etc etc...

So i took her out. Just the two of us, we went ice skating, i must of got like a million IOI's and we held hands throughout, but i was concentrating so much on the kiss close, that i fucked it up, and we ended up giving each other an awkward good bye.

we've spoke a few times since, but i've moved out the area for a while. so i told her, theres this girl i like basically described her, she knows its her, but i said ill tell her in the summer as its not the right time now, cos i won't see her for 4 months. She's always bringing this "girl" up, knowing its her, etc etc, and seems really excited. But our only forms of communication now is the phone, or internet.

I notice how very AFC all the above was, and im in desperate need for advice, HB9 dammit!
Thanks for reading.. Jabber.

Thats the key words I picked up. Chances are she may have too....

Maybe not, but I would suggest you make her work towards you otherwise you risk oneitis as she builds with BF and keeps you as a standby.

Definately do not show her your cards, its the only power you have left with this girl. Tease her etc even joke that this 'new' girl reminds you of her and the friendship you built or something like that.

She may sound excited but beware of the trap!

Yeah no ill definately tease her more. I'm just worried because all she seems to do is drop shit tests, and she way better than me at push and pull. ie, she'd send me a text but then not reply to mine, or not call when she said she would etc...But when i talk to her, it was if nothing never happends and she's in love with me.

Don't worry about one-itis, she is very much a side project not taking off as well as i'd of hoped.

Thanks Jock.