Ok first off ive been lurking in the community for the past 2 years picking up helpful tidbits here and there and reading alot of books by neil strauss and the mystery method. I applied it and got laid in a month and then used it to get into a great year and a half relationship. I'd apply different things here and there in the relationship as testers. Anyways we broke up and since then i've been single but have really fell out of where i was a year ago.

Fast forward

Ive been talking to this girl from work texting and face to face using game such as push pull, negging and etc in a crude form i need to get back out there and refine it but anyways here's what happened.

HB9 i suggest we party sometime and this weekend we did i said i was at another party to display value and things like im always a busy person. She suggests i come to hers and i tell her maybe.

I end up coming and she's drunk and im drunk i know bad way to game we hug and immediately hit off a great conversation about work and i neg her alot and raise the kino through hugs etc. My friend is my wing and comes in and tells her im the man etc. I build DHV through stories on work, similar music and etc.

I cut loose and sarge other groups while shes talking to another guy i make sure she can see my being the life of the party. She comes up to me and asks "will you please give me a ride back home" i respond "no absolutely not" but then relent and say maybe then yes (push pull) my friend is DD btw. We talk for a bit then i go off to seem like the life of the party and she dissapears for a bit.

Later she asks to take fbook pics and my friend being a great wing suggests she kisses me and etc. (Just on the cheek). Later we leave and end up making out in the car i use the mystery line "would you like to kiss me" "maybe" "lets find out". Drop her off and i dont suggest to go into her appt or anything (wrong choice?). She texts me later saying "thanks for the ride " i respond "i didnt want to but sure we should do that again sometime" then i tell her i have to go and have a nice night.

The next day i get no texts and i text her at 6 about dave matthews hoping he wins the grammies. We talk about random stuff then i bring up us making out and say "i normally like to get the know the other person better and its usually never someone from work but dont worry work wont be awkward " i say this to possibly set up a date later was it wrong for me to say this? should i have just not have brung it up? she texted back 30 mins later saying "i didnt think itd be awkward its college stuff happens" i respond agreeing then say we should party again she responds 10 mins later and says she cant believe some of the stuff she said last night and she needed to be drunker and for sure we should and then went off on work related things.

I havent responded yet but fellas i want to get in this girls pants and get the kill so i can post the LR help me what did i do wrong and what do i need to do i was thinking of saying we should go out to eat sometime but this is delicate since we work together and dont want to step into a situation i perceived wrong. If any pros out there want to get more details and help me out give me your e-mail or number. Was i wrong in what i texted today?

I think that you maybe put to much emphasis on the ''Kiss''?

I wouldnt of said ''Absoloutly not'' either, i would of said ''maybe, i don't want to go anywhere while the party is good, ill let you know later, cause it seems like you play a game of objecting but eventually cracking....

So you have FB, Is she attending any events where you have mutual friends, work partys?? find out and go there with a wing, so its not so planned more of a casual ''oh i didn't know you were going to be here''.

Let me know how it goes.

HelloGoodbye.

my two cents... she want you...


the fact she say that she really need to get drunker and everything is just too have a ''reason'' to have done anything that could happen to that next party...

you need to get her more confortable with you, do not just kino and DHV, show her you ''like'' her before anything then she'll get confortable with you and gently accept your advances...

_________________
-Always remember the Alphaness of Tyler from Figth Club
-Always remember the Value of a Wing
-Always remember the Bird from Top Gun


Active peacock theory practicer ;p

hey fellas i took into account everything you said and worked with her on tuesday... it was great tons of conversation, negged her, had her qualify to me, kino, push pulled all that good stuff. earlier that day she facebook messaged me and that night when i left she had 3 more hours on her shift left and said "ill probably text you and bug you while i work" which i replied "oh god no..." responded by "you know you love it!" anyways i suggested we go to applebee's between our shift friday and she accepted right away. alot of positive signs since then she wrote on my wall and texted me today.

should i keep letting her contact me or should i throw out a text soon?

also she's talking to two other guys really flirty and so tonight during our good text message convo i just stopped responding at 11. i did this to make my time more precious than the other guys. good idea? should i initiate convo tommorow?

also any tips for our dinner date? routines? cocky funny? i want to kiss close but i obviously cant do it in the restaurant and our work is across the street any good ideas to isolate her and make out?