Yea so I figured I would try writing my first field report, so here it goes!

So last weekend was pretty cool, went to chill with my good friend Friday night and he wanted to go pick up these 2 girls he knew. So we get to there place and right off the bat I introduce myself to these 2 girls, and the hotter one gives me IOI's. I neg her right off the bat lol. She was wearing casual sweat bottoms and so was my friend, so when we were walking back to the car I told her she and my friend would make a good couple, she gave me a smile and a friendly nudge and got in the car. So the rest of the night I keep getting IOI's from her, like she asks if I have a girlfriend and then takes my phone and puts her number in it. Later on that night we're alone and she gives me that look of wanting to be kissed, so I dive right in and we have a pretty intense make out session lol. After that we went back to my friends room and went to sleep (we were getting up early the next day). She snuggles into me all night and we kiss some more but nothing more than that. The next day was weird. I had to be up early and go check in with my duty section (military). When I got back later that day all of us watched a movie (my friend, his girl, me and my target), we get into the whole making out thing again and fool around for a while (no intercourse tho). After that I began losing interest, and this is where it went down hill. My target started acting like she was hot shit and started telling me about her ex's and shit (ignored her for the most part). Then later that night I just give up trying with this chick all together and we barely talk the rest of the night, and the next morning I take them back and there wasn't that connection me and the target had the first day together. So what went wrong? I think I fucked up by not acting interested but I don't know, I mean I still have her number, but I don't want to text her and be some other guy on her list texting her and shit...

P.S. The last time we were hooking up she tried to unbutton my pants and I wouldn't let her lol, I wasn't interested in getting a sloppy handjob at the time, did that help in my downfall?

Would love some input!

You basically rejected her here. Who knows what this girl was looking for, maybe just a good lay? You acted as if you weren't interested (which eventually became truth) and rejected her escalation, no wonder she's not interested anymore.

And wait, wut? You prefer NO handjob over a sloppy handjob (that could escalate into a good fucking)?

You say you showed disinterest in the girl etc but now you are wondering in your mind about texting her and not being another one of her text guys.

This is not in line with your actions which perhaps indicates you maybe showed a bit too much interest in the girl.

From my experiences real disinterest in a girl often has them running to you especially after you have made out and the attraction is clearly there. She would be wondering why is this guy not like all the other guys and on me like white on rice?