Hey guys I'm new here. Oddly enough I found the community through the show and read Neil Strauss's book. I've been lurking on the forums for a while now taking in as much knowledge as I can and the other night i got to test it out for the first time.

I was visiting a friend who lives off campus and I was introduced to one of the roommates who was an HB7.5. At first I didn't really talk much because my friend had told me about her BF who is significantly older... close to 30. But as we were drinking she sorta grew on me so I thought ehhhh... practice is practice lol. This girl is like a cold blooded daddies little princess who would cut your balls off for fun if she could. Her really good friend was also there so I tried talking to her as much as possible before gaming the target. As me and the friend were talking she calls her BF and a HUGE fight erupts over the phone. I start neging her to her friend. "Is she always this loud and belligerent in front of guests?" Fights over and we all decide to go out. At the club is when I forget about the obstacle and start going after the target. She was eating the C&F up. I isolate her by asking her to come outside for a smoke and here is where I think I made a mistake. She comes and ofcourse I continue Kino which I had been building for the past half an hour or so in the club. We start talking and without sharing many details all Im gonna say is that out convo got very personal. It was like those deep emotional things that you dont tell anyone. And I guess she opened up because I used Mystery's "at some point your gonna have to let your walls down and let that inner princess come out... blah blah" we all leave when our friends come out but before we get to the car I go take a piss (HORRIBLE mistake #2) by the time I come back she's calling her BF and wants to drive by his place to see if his car is there. I never really studied any BF destroyers considering Im so new to the game Id go for easier single girls only. By the end of the night she was sorta asking me why I was being an asshole to her with the sorta puppy dog eyes. So i guess maybe she liked me and I negged too hard... I dunno. Im gonna see her again next weekend so I need all the help I can get.

Was the intense convo too much? I was trying to keep kino while doing it by like leaving my arm on her knee or my arm on her shoulder so I wouldn't get a LJBF thing.

All help appreciated. Thanks in advance.