Last nite was an all of nite for me guys.I went to a spanish club to meet up with my 2 cuzins and a buddy of mine.All they can talk about how shitty there lives are with there girlfriends. I was tired and not very motivated to be there and i guess it showed.My routine was all off!I did not dress as good as i should have either.At the end of the nite i meet some chick( i said a HB 6.5) and fuck that up for two reasons. 1: i was very stiff and of beat all nite. 2: I guess i got a lil to eager to make shit work and tried to force a K close. I fell like the biggest AFC today. Gentlemen help a brother out. What can i do to avoid such Crap next time!!


P.S. if want the details of what i went wrong in my opion let me know.

TIMING... its all about timing, you have to practice and its better to take your time and think then to rush, if you take your time and think you will notice all the signals she is sending you and since you are thinking you should be able to counter or go with whatever she is throwing at you. Dont forget usually the rule of thumb is to close you need three IOIs. Good luck and get back out there tonight and practice cause thats the only way youll get better

Dont worry i aint going to quit. There are some lil details that happened last nite. My drunk ass cuzin was hitting on her first and she shut him down after he tried to get a k close. Then she came to me asking me to dance with her( IOI) I neg her a few times.When we felt the club, she stopped and started talking to a GUY friend of hers. A few mins go by and i walk up to her and used the IT POLITE TO INTRODUCE NEG AND THE ILL LEAVE YOU TWO ALONE ALL SOO. She then stopped me from leaving and said good by to her homeboy.(IOI) I walked her to her car and she gave me a funny look with a smile.(not sure what that was about, soo i took it as a IOI since i was drunk)And that where i fucked up. I should have just gone for the # close.