I lost my virginity at age 22 in medical school to my first girl friend, also a medical student. I had the best sex with my second girl friend, also a medical student. I met my third girlfriend, also a medical student, while she was living with another guy. She moved out, accepted my proposal, and we were married 20 years.

While I was married, without knowing what I was doing, every so often I gamed an HB. Looking back, I was using many of the techniques discussed hereabouts. Sometimes, I used the opposite techniques. I had a coed throwing herself at me because I was man enough to playfully tell her what a geek I was, and, she viewed herself the same way. However, she was hot. But, I didn't have sex with her, because I was married.

So, as I see it, you have to have some game to meet women, and get their juices flowing, and, you have to be a little patient. Some of the prettiest and best quality women who have been attracted to me have taken months of intermittent contact to warm up to me. It didn't happen in an hour in a bar.

It happened in the course of my life as I was interacting with people at work and my social circle or even in my hobbies. When you meet women under these conditions and their is chemistry relationships are much more likely. Hell, they're amused when you screw up. It's like you're trying and they see through you and just laugh. They kind of dig your awkward advances.

The art of seduction is all about quick approach, comfort, attraction, and closing. There is nothing in this sequence about determining the suitability of a woman for you other than her physical attractiveness. I read "The Game" and except for the end where Style meets Lisa, I found it a sad tale of pick ups and condoms.

In the 1.5 years Style chronicled the PUA community Mystery was admitted to the psychiatric hospital twice, and Project Hollywood turned into a grossed out frat house.

If you have a need to sleep with women for affirmation, that's cool. We all have sexual needs as well, and who isn't rock hard around HBs. Why not, give it a go. But, it's a lot more time efficient to just beat your meat and be done with it. Spend your time improving your "inner game." Translation: become an interesting person who does interesting things.

Picking up drunk women in bars is fun, but I view it as recreation, not a means to an end.

Boy, my post above was a downer. Well, you know how your feelings about things can change over a day or a week. Although I did have a long marriage, the reason I attracted my wife had a lot to do with, unwittingly, a lot of the techniques discussed here.

I met her in class, and we exchanged notes for a while. Then we met to go for a swim, etc. I was working out back then and had some nice pecs and muscles and a tan. I was lonely, but never let on, and she often thought I was blowing her off. It bothered her.

I've picked up and f-closed women in my day, but it wasn't technique. They just happened to be ready and attracted to me. With technique, those opportunities come along more often, and, with better looking women.

It's easy to dismiss trying to or succeeding in picking up women or getting numbers...but, at least for me....if I'm not gaming I'm just bored. Life seems stale without some sort of female presence, be it long term or short term. It's gotten to the point where even crashing and burning would feel better than not being out there sarging. And that is the basis for action.

Within the next week I'm going to work up a routine and sarge on my own for the first time. Time to get into the field.

I for one look forward to how that goes for you buddy.
Deep post as well. Enjoyed reading it.
Although I am unsure of what it is you wish to take from the game. You said you didn't want to just get notches on the belt, do you want another long term relationship or are you just happy communicating with women?

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- Giacomo
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Wow I'm in your situation 20 years ago. I'm 22, still a virgin though relatively goodlooking, just started medical school, and have pecs and abs. I'm just too awkward... Girls strike up a conversation with me and I can't keep it going. Then they always get this look of disappointment which just kills me...

Any advice neogamer? About girls in medical school or life in general? I'm thinking of plunging myself furthur into debt and going to a training camp next summer, what do you think I should do?

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-Layla

"What'll you do when you get lonely
And nobody's waiting by your side?" - Clapton

I lost my virginity in medical school too. In my day the saying was "What's the difference between a female medical student and the garbage? The garbage gets taken out more often." LOL. So I slept with a couple of my classmates, then married one.

How did I do it? Like you, they were attracted to me, so I had a head start. Then I combined AFC chattiness, alcohol, and proximity. Just hang out with women, have a drink or two to loosen up, have some fun yourself, and reel them in.

I found that female med students take some time to heat up, so the quicker action is with the nursing and PT and OT students and other medically related fields. Don't play the med student card much, they know who you are. As a med student you are most definitely THE PRIZE. Just relax, learn how to open, tell some stories, and try to make out.

I found kissing or trying to kiss is a good move when you run out of material. It's like, hell, I'm tired, time to fish or cut bait. Once you get over your shyness (and you will), you'll have lots of choices. I advise not doing what I did (marry another med student).

Doctors are lousy wives. Take your time and most of all just start talking. You better get good at it, because as a med student you're going to be exposed to everything and have to talk about everything. Chatting up a pretty girl is going to be tame compared to giving some gal a pelvic exam in the ER because shes afraid shes got Chlamydia. .

A med student the other day wanted to show me all the muslces, ligaments, tendons and major artery, veins in my leg the other day. Not sure why she did but she was very keen about it.
Groping around my thighs, what these girls will make up just to touch me...

I guess something like this could be used a harmless way to kino though.

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- Giacomo
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That's a great idea! Nothing like sexually charging a study session.

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-Layla

"What'll you do when you get lonely
And nobody's waiting by your side?" - Clapton