Sup everyone thought I'd share my bar adventure.
I meet up with my roomates and my roomates' girlfriend's co-workers. Anyway, One of them was afriend that I rarely saw. Her name was Victoria and shes a good hb7, w/ no make up or anything. She was dressed very comfortable with the tank top jeans and cons combo.
I scoped the scene and I instantly make friends with the entire group. I flashed smile after smile.

She turns to me and says, "I know what you're doing..."
Me
"Being friendly? "

Victoria
"establishing to be the center of attention...being the AMOG"

Me
"Whats an AMOG?" Acting like I have no idea what shes talking about.

Victoria
"Im not all the way certainw/ the lingo, but youre trying to be the Alpha Male Of the Group." I paused and taken in by what shes saying. "Dont worry Mike(my roomate) told me about you." I froze. "Don't worry I can help you, it be fun."

Me
"Wing me then."

And so she did. It was amazing. I opened sets throughout the bar and it was great. She had great ideas for openers, and had a good social analytical mind. She helped greatly in taking down bitch shields. She was by far the best wing Ive gotten.

We soon left to walk to another bar which took almost 10mins.

Me
"So how do you know all of that"

Her
"Ive hungout w/ my brother alot as DD when he'd go to try to pick up girls. Hes a PUA or at least hes trying to be one. I've read some of his books and stuff. Plus I'm a pretty good observer. And also I'm a chick Ive had guys try their game on me and my friends. Not to sound conceited but after awhile you kinda notice whats good and whats not in a situation."
( I was drunk and the only way I could recount this conversation was because I drunk dialed one of my homeboys and left this on his voice mail lol)

I was genuinely impressed.

Me drunk. A rAFC trying to improve into a PUA I say:
"So since you're my wing, we should be cool enough and comfortable enough for me to ask if I can try some approaches right?"

Her
"Yep thats me the wingman..sure if thats what youd like." This comment made it sound like she really didn't want to. But one we got into the bar she was all up for it. We tried some role playing. She purposely disappeared, so i could find her and sarge her. Acouple of minutes later I find her enjoying a drink with this obvious AFC in the traditional bar attire of button up collar shirt and bleach tipped hair. I walk and stand to the side of the two. my right shoulder pointed between Victoria and AFC. I was close but not to extract attention.

AFC
Looks at her drink. "Wow you can really pound those down. Here lemme get you another."

Victoria
"no don't get me another. If you buy me a drink everytime I finish the last one I'd make you broke."

Me
I casually lean in not totally facing her I say "Or you could by me a drink then I can pass it back to my buddy here..." pointing to the AFC "That
way he can make some of his money back so he won't be broke."

Victoria
laughs "If you hustle me, I'd be broke then." AFC then kinda gives of a smile thinking shes got me.

Me
"Just a couple of drinks would do. You wouldn't be broke and you'd gain a new friend. Friends are priceless. You wouldn't put a price tag on friendship? Youre not that type of person... are you? AFC then flashes the smile this time its a smile thinking I got her.

Victoria
"Well...I really would like to but truthfully I'm a lesbian." This sent AFC away instantly. Our role playing was over and we started to giggle.
"Wow I was expecting you to come up with a rehearsed line. And I even tried to get you with the 'id be broke then' comeback. Nice."
It was probably because we were roleplaying infront if the AFC. But its a rare occurance that I improv'd as smoothly as she thought.

Coming down from our little role playing practice, I took a timeout from sarging and her being my wingman. We talked about each other and our personal dating history and we bonded. It was great we had a connection. Through our conversation and being that it was 12midnite, she said "Happy Birthday" and gave me a hug. She bought me drink after drink. She even offered to drive me back to my house. We talked more and more and she kept saying how "too bad im just your wingman."
Then a moment of clarity hit me. IOI. Shes been sending me IOIs pretty early on. So in my best attempt to sound beligerantly smoothI leaned in and asked:

Me.
Much like Mystery's line
"So would you like to...." She interrupts with her face planted on mine. It was great. We continued to talk then make out...talk...make out. We were "that" couple at the bar. It was tacky but it was my bday and I was making out w/ her. I am happy.

We eventually make our way to her car where she mentions.
Victoria
"Theres a lot of cops out. I should just quickly drop you off. I got a long ways to get home."

I fell for it.

Me
"Well you could stay at my house its closer and just go home in the morning."

Her
"Ur roomates arent gonna freak when they see me laying on the couch will they?"

Me
"Not if youre sleeping in my room."

We get into the car. She drives, She blasts Amy Winehouse through her speakers. Im drunk and I thought great Amy Winehouse. I pass out.

We get to my house I am mildly recovered we go in make our way upstairs we make out. With our clothes on we dry hump. She says "ready?"

I reply no. Not tonight. We talk some more with intrevals of kissing and we eventually both pass out.

She wakes up the next morning she says how she wants to hangout again and work on my game as her wingman. We exchange numbers. She gets in her car and drives off.

Sorry its long, but I didn't want to miss a detail. I think this girl is cool and different she has an awesome personality. But I almost felt like she was sarging me. ...I don't know. Should I have had sex? I think it would ve been cool, but i don't know... However having a female wingman is great. They can bring down bitch shields and offer great insight! Plus theyre great to practice on (with their consent of coarse). Thank you Victoria.

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JUSTINcredible!
the one and only

dude! find out if she like girls too, you could be totally getting her to pick up girls for the both of you to enjoy.
I once was with a chick really similar situation, i was very open with her and we ended up shagging, she really liked me but i kept telling her no, we wont go anywhere, lets just shag, then one night at a club she said she wants a 3 some with me, so she goes around asking girls that i point out as being my type while i sat on the couch.
It was RAD to say the least, got one girl back to my place, she had some drugs then left without giving nothing, i was devastated, but then we get a text message from another one of the girls who gave out her number saying she was dissapointed when she saw us leave with the other girl, we gave her the address and she was over in 5 mins. Bam got my 3 some and many more with other chicks

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"My father always said remember, where ever there is a georgeous girl, there is a guy sick of shagging her" Alfie

Back when I used to sarge a lot, one of my favourite openers was to ask girls to pretend like they know me so I can pick up "that girl" *points*. Using girls as pivots makes the world of difference.

You got to see that, and then you closed with your pivot. I would say it was a masterful performance if you had planned it from the start, but yes, this has demonstrated a lot about social interactions.

If you meet a girl for the first time, and you are fun and interesting (as you were), she will probably become attracted to you. You then sat down a bit and built some comfort. The fact you were not trying to pick her up was a bit of a neg for her, she felt like she had to try to get your attention... You can see it all, clear as day.

Blah. Nice work mate.

Dude.... Fucking Awsome. I cant belive it.

thanks guys. Heres the update.
After that night Ive been keeping her at the friend zone. I'd only call her if
1) Its Mon night and it was time to watch the PUA show.
2) Its the weekend and its time to game. And I'd like her to wing for me (and be my pivot).

But every weekend it always happens. She'd always help me which is very cool of her. Every now and then she'd bring up that SHES the wingman. She'll get drunk then she'll start heavy flirting then we always end up kissing. I'm sure giving her sexy time would be fun and all, but I keep thinking:

1)Shes sarging me. Because I didnt give in to having sex the 1st time. She may be sarging me to prove to herself that she can? then im just another point for her.

2)Because she is pretty cool, I may get attched. Which I dont want. Cant become a mPUA if im taken. Plus shes way too cool to be around as a friend, i dont want to risk losing that.

Im usually giving out the advice on here but this situations too weird.Maybe its because I am the one whos in it.

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JUSTINcredible!
the one and only

Dude.... i guess ur right but theres nothing wrong with being attached if you like her...just start hitting up surronding cities....or not..idk

You just answered your own questions. One of the most important rules to dating a friend (And you know she is) is that you have to be willing to lose it. Your not. The end.

Enjoy her friendship bro.

EvoJ