So I was at the mall yesterday with my one of my homeboys we’re waiting on a friend to get off work. Turns out we were way to early still had and hour left so We walked around the mall a while got pretty tired so we decided to take a bench outside one of the stores.

I spot this mixed girl she had on a thin blue dress and I could see was definitely wearing a thong cause you could see the outline and her ass jiggling in good way. I caught her looking my way a few times I smiled at her she gave a faint so so yeah whatever smile back.
Me and boy sit there commentating on her ass for a bit and talking about other stuff.
Then three thug out wannabe’s came in trying to holla they failed miserably not sure what they were talking about but she just had that I’m annoyed look. They eventually left


I said to my boy “man I’m bout to talk her”
My home boy said “man you’ve been sitting here awhile may have lost the opportunity” (as in I waited to long to make a move) by even my standards I really did wait way longer than normal we must have been there about 7-10mins. I tell him your probably right but the way you counter that is with ‘guts’ I’m about to say something she don’t expect to hear. I get up start walking towards the store I’m committed to it now my friend is watching can’t punk out now. She see’s me coming all the way I get to her look her in the eye I say look I’ve been sitting there(point over to the bench) watching you every time you turn around. And I must say it is a very lovely backside . Her jaw drops and she starts laughing and say’s “Oh my god your are too much.” Then she say what took you so long to come say hello? I say “Look! me and my boy were discussing some things and when we finished then I was going to make my way over to here(said with swagger) the store don’t close til 10pm you weren’t’ going no where” She pauses and says “hmmm alright so what’s up,” I say do you prefer textin or talking on the phone she say’s textin, I say “Why” she say’s “because sometimes I just don’t feel like talkin (laughter)”We talk short bit about where she stays meantion she’s in school then I hand her my phone she puts her number in, I say “I’ll send you text sometime.” she say’s “Cool!” I end the conversation I tell her me and boy got to be some where (no point hanging around after I got the number).

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It really depends on the situation. I mean, if this happened to you at the club or a bar it wouldve been different.
The reason is because that in this sort of places there is more potential males for her and if you don't seize your opportunity, her attraction for you could flake as she knows that you are a low value male that do not get her indicators of interest for you.

However, the 3-second rule is mostly designed to exceed the AA, so it will be easier to approach without thinking too much.

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with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

What spexxx said, especialy on the last part about overcoming AA.

Btw your avatar made it extremely difficult to read any of your text... it's nice but just take it into consideration.

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Hey Reo,

I just wanted to read your post but ended up staring at your avatar thing for like 3 minutes straight. To be honest, I still don't know what the hell you wrote.

the 3 seconds rule is very good, If i see a very hot girl but i don't approach her within 1 min. i will thinking a lots of stuff and than i don't go to her.

So the 3 seconds rule is cool, You see a hot girl? approach her immediatley and see what happened :d you got number of email? good
Nothing or she has boyfriend? Don't worry, you made fun and experience for next time.

Now i try to use the 3 seconds rule more and more so i will not think too much when i want to approach a girl but just follow my 'Game tactic' ^^

(ps: if i made some english mistakes it is because english is my second language only)

LOL I did the same thing.

But the 3 second rule is mostly used to aid in approach anxiety. Personally I do not use the rule that much.

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Ok the point I'm trying to make is when you stand there hovering near a girl or staring back at her and she clearly knows it and you don't say anything for 10mins like i did. When you finally decide to approach her you've coming a from a preceivably weak position in her eyes for having waited so long. now if i had approached with a hello, hey, or how you doin or some opener she typically expected to hear from guys she would have thought yeah he's lame as expected. I said something shocking that she never expected to hear and countered my preceivably weak disposition

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Hmmm. Right of the bat i give your props. Its not easy conquering AA at times. What ive grown to notice is that like Reo previous state is that the 3 second rule isnt every thing but as long as you do not indicate any interest in your target before you approach her only. For example if she looks at you and your reading a book then its no big deal. Only when she feels you are interested in her (i.e. looking at her) and you have not opened her or her set within say three to five seconds that you will then lose value in your targets eye.

I believe you countered very well with your precieved weak disposition but in all honesty i wouldnt try it. Congrats with your pick up!