I've tried pick up briefly a year ago. I read the material, went out, and acted arrogant. I overdid everything and didn't really understand the theory; I was only pushing and not really pulling. Got nearly no success. I got a woman saying racist things to me, got hit on the face by a woman, got yelled at many times. Keep in mind that this is university and some of the people I'm gaming are my classmates, and you know how rumors spread. I'm not gonna pretend that I'm Mr. Tough Guy here, I can't accept that shit especially the racist comments and the rumors. I stopped pick up for a year and focused on my studies.

Now I decided that I want to change. There were women who helped me out when I had problems. I've had women who tutored me for free. I know women who does cool things like run for student council. I want to succeed with women because some of them are pretty cool people, so I'm getting back into pick up.

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Tonight I went out and did night game. I'm dressed like a japanese host. Japanese hosts are like male strippers who don't strip; girls pay them lots of money for a conversation and buy them drinks and gifts. Crazy huh? I probably look like a foreigner who have no clue about local fashion, but I don't care.

I talked to my hair stylist when I got my hair cut + dyed, and went through a1-a3 (probably because she was payed to be friendly though..) She's not good at english, so I talked to her in Chinese and taught her some english.

Next I went downtown to hit the clubs. Reminded me of a year ago, when messed up horribly and quit pick up. I opened sets with "Who lies more, guys or girls?" Got blown out every set. Is the line overused? Got some compliments from guys for the way I dress though.

At the end of the night, I rewarded myself for pushing myself by going to a strip club for the first time. In high school I worried about living my entire life without seeing a female naked. Cost less than 10 dollars to finally achieve that "milestone".

The weird thing is I didn't get really turned on by the stripper; it felt more like a place to relax after the club game warzone. Because of that, I'm don't know if I will be able to ejaculate when I have sex for the first time. Anyone have any advice for this?

opener:


Scorecard:

approaches: 7 and 1 stray dog
1 set: a1,a2,a3
rest of the sets: a1 only (got blown out)
missed approaches: 20-40

Good: making approaches
Need to learn: new opener, how to dance, dance game

Questions:

Where is a good place to learn dance game online?
How about how to dance confidently (no, just "feeling the beat" didn't work for me)?
I'm dressed in a black suit, really clean and professional looking. I need a necklace with a big shiny ornament so that I don't just look professional, but interesting as well. Not something gangster that looks scary; something that looks cool. Any recommendations for online shopping? Any stores in the vancouver area that sells that?
What are some bootcamps in British Columbia? Preferably one that is not too expensive for a university student.

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I lose to learn
I win to teach