For the past month I have been taking my game to the local bars and clubs of SLC. Coming from Los Angeles I've noticed some odd happenings in the vibe here in SLC. Last night for example....

There was 3 of us J-money, James, and me. J-money is Alpha, James is Beta, and me - I'm an actor- So I'm Alpha when I want to be. (which is pretty much all the time). So last night we get to the bar around 11:00pm, and since I'm driving I decide NOT to drink... which is probably why I am analyzing last night - where as if I were drunk I probably would have forgot it.

First thing I do is order a water, and lean back against the bar with my friends. We are a decent group of guys... J-money attracts some "interesting" girls, James doesn't attract any... and me well... I'll tell you.

I see a group of girls in front of me laughing... I would make eye contact with a 6 occasionally, and since I want to get in the grove of making friends, I decide I'm going to cheers my drink with them. (This has worked great in the past) So I make my way over to them and I hold up my drink and as soon as a I do she starts shaking her head "NO", so my instinct thinks that she is not understanding my intentions, so I say "Cheers" and she now shakes her head "NO" and says it. So I look at her and I calmly say "Uh... cheers" Like do you not understand English? Finally she clinks my glass and from her body language she is definitely not interested... in fact repulsed. Which at this point is totally throwing me off... I have barely said anything yet. So just look at her calmly and still with great body language and confidence say "You're weird," and I walk away.

Now normally if I were drinking this wouldn't faze me, but for some reason for the rest of the night my game is WAY off, and my mind keeps going back to the "cheers" incident. I go to the dance floor and by this time my J-money is buzzing major and dancing with a 5 on the dance floor... I can see this night is going down hill fast. I look around and notice a lot of 5, 6, and 7's on the dance floor and only a few 8's and one 9 with her boy friend leaned up against the wall. So I just start dancing by myself - sober - which is starting to feel weird. So I go back to the bar talk to a hot 8 waitress that was totally digging me last week, but now seems to be busy. So I finally decide to just post up with James for a while and people watch... leaning back, smiling, and with great body language... but I'm not getting any reactions! Nothing. (not like last week when I had girls buying me drinks - but I was wearing a fedora and drinking - that might have helped)

Needless to say the bar starts to close, the lights come on and I see an amazing 9! Talking to an aggressive Alpha at the bar... she looks at me holds eye contact and then looks down and smiles. Finally an IOI! But the AMOG is all over her and then two other AMOG come up to her and start talking... and since I'm already having a poor night I decided to wait out the AMOG's before I make my approach. It's clear they aren't going to leave her anytime soon and start walking out the door with her. Damn! lost opportunity. But wait, she needs to get her coat and breaks from the group. I realize it's now or never... so I make my approach.

Me: Tell me how I know you.
9: I don't know, how do you? (Laughs)
Me: You're not a SLC girl are you?... I can tell.
9: Yes I am!
Me: oh come on, now you're just lying to me.
9: No serious!
Me: I'd say San Diego - or Alabama.
9: Alabama? What! (Laughs)
Me: (Laughs)
9: More like Park City girl.
Me: Oh really?

Then at this point the AMOG comes back over and physically grabs her away from me and her friend comes over to and starts telling him, that he already has her number... call her later. I realize he met her that night - they're not even friends, and now he's trying to protect his catch. I wait out the interaction and I can see her trying to get back to ME. But he is physically grabbing her arm and will not let her come back to me. Then J-money and James come up to me and are trying to get me to leave the bar... I tell them I'll meet them outside.

Finally the guy leaves and now she is just talking to her friend who is a 5. I make my approach again.

Me: Well I'm leaving now
9: Nice meeting you
Me: What was your name?
9: Lacy - and yours? (smiling)
Me: BosaNova (I giver her my real name)
Well I'm going to have to get your number
9: (Laughs) You're smooth
Me: (Laughs) Yea, I know.

I hand hold my phone in front of her and she gives me her number.

Me: I'll see you around -

I leave. It was that easy. A 9! The hottest girl in the club gave me more IOI's then all the 5,6,7, and 8's combined. Wow.

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BOSANOVA