| I'm fairly new to this, but I'll give my opinion and I'm sure someone will tell you if I'm off my rocker. All I can say is that I've given advice similar to this in the past to friends, and the situation usually worked out like they wanted it to.
First of all, I wouldn't buy anything just for the sake of getting her number. I've done this in the past and the only thing it's done is make my bank account smaller. Plus, and I could be wrong on this, it seems just a little AFC to me. I'll only buy if I want to buy.
Personally, I'd do one of two things:
Tell her you don't see anything you want to buy, but she's pretty cool to talk to and would she like to ... (whatever your thing is - drinks, coffee, whatever).
or
If you think she's pretty into you, leave the store and go to a different one. When you're ready to leave the mall, go back in and tell her you have to go, but would she like to go to drinks, coffee, etc.
This second one I've only tried one time, but it worked for me. I'm also a little different than you in that I tell them that I'm shopping for myself - which obviously wouldn't work at a place like Victoria's Secret...unless that's the type of kink you're looking for. I don't know if saying that I'm shopping for myself hurts or helps, but I haven't run into any roadblocks that I know of.
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