So I called the hb earlier in the week, tuesday, to let her know I was back in town. I said we should meet up on the weekend, saturday, she said ok. I told her I had exams on thursday and friday, which i did. So I didn't expect her to call me until saturday.

She called me on wednesday seeing if I wanted to meet up that night. I reminded her that I had exams and I couldn't go out, she said it was ok, and would see me soon. I called her on friday evening to make plans for saturday. She said she would call after she got off work.

So she called me saturday and said she wanted to meet up with me. She was going out with her friends, and I was going out with my friends, but to the same area. I said I'd text her when I was in the area. I texted her when we had been there for a while, she said she was on her way to meet her friends. I asked where she was going. She didn't respond at all. I then called her an hour and a half later, no answer. She then texted me asking where I was. I called her ten minutes later, she answered, but she gave an incoherent answer and hung up. She was with her friends, and there was a lot of background noise. I called back half an hour later, no answer. She didn't respond the rest of the night.

She was super down with me earlier. She would come pick me up at my place, and pay for her own stuff when we went out. One night she came out specifically to see me and gave me a ride home when I didn't need one. She called me on wednesday even though I told her the day before I couldn't go out. She also called me to hang out on the night in question. My theory is that she was too f***ed up and partying with her friends to be able to use her phone. She had been drinking for a while, since 7pm, but not before she called me that day. She even responded between 7pm to 12am, but not after. However, It's now sunday evening, and she hasn't responded back with an explanation or apology.

How should I handle this? Should I call her to ask what happened? Should I wait for her to call/what if she doesn't? I don't know what could have possibly changed during that night that would make her unattracted to me.

Any explanation or help with how to deal with this would be appreciated.

Contrary to many in here, I like to think that its not the guy's fault always but in this case I think it is your fault. There was too much of calling and texting that you were doing. Once you were out with your friends and you just texted her you shouldn't have bothered calling. Clubs & Bars are loud, she out there having a good time, some guy must be hitting on her that she must be enjoying (Yes be realistic).

so dont bother calling or texting her for the next few days unless she texts you. In which case you should just let this whole thing slide by and act as if nothing happened. Just dont mention it. Besides she DOESN'T NEED TO APPOLOGISE TO YOU. She was having a good time and you were being needy.

Lots of things could have happened, things you cant control or that werent your fault.
Ok you might have texted/called her a bit much but so did she.

What I'm saying is that she could have indeed been way to drunk that night, and maybe even too drunk to remember what happened, the next day.

She could have been swept off her feet by another guy and she made out with him or 'worse', maybe she feels a little guilty.

Maybe her friends told her to get off the phone and to stop texting because she was out with them.

Really there are a lot of things that could have happened, but you cant worry about them too much..its no use.

Act as if nothing happened and if she apologises to you tell her she missed out on a great party with you and your friends, that it was her loss.

I think you should give it a few days to see if she will contact you again. If she doesnt contact you, and if she usually does it more often, then something might be up. So keep us updated.

Best of luck bro,

Chillburg.

She texted me finally, it's now wednesday. How should I respond?