Your thoughts are all, of course, appreciated.

I was at Tokyo Joe's today and I was just eating me meal, and low and behold a saw an HB 9.5 walk in. She's there with a guy who went and sat down before her. So I wait till she's ordered, and walks over to fill her fountain drink, and I walked over to do the same.

I never get significant approach anxiety but her hotness combined with the fact that there were about a dozen people listening sent my heart racing.

It was so crowded, but not that loud. It was like 15 people waiting in line for soft drinks, and no one was talked. So counted to 3... 15... 25... 200? I don't know but eventually it just came out of my mouth somehow;

"Can I get a female opinion on something?"

At first when I began the Jealous GF opener she was like, "what?" and so I explained a little. It seemed to hook, but as we got into it it was time to fill up our drinks. She finished answering and was getting her lid. I blew my opportunity to start another thread. I just kind of agreed with her that the girl was psycho, mentioned something about my friend's relationship, and shut up. After that, she smiled and walked back to her seat.

Thoughts for next time:
I have to bridge the thread (or multithread) to keep the conversation going. I have to DHV before I give her a chance to leave. I have to pay more attention to body language. I have to deliver with more confidence.

Headed to the bars tonight, I'll try to keep all that in mind.

the most important thing I've learned is that even though she may be there with another guy (Which Im sure really added to your anxiety) is that an interaction between a HB and yourself is your own. You can take t where you want, when you want, and for your own reasons. Study up and you will be gold.

If she shoots you down, bro, she came with a guy and you were expecting it. If she doesnt though, and you #-close (which is the only real close I can see happening in a situation like this) you just scored BIG!

Be good to yourself! You can and will do it!

What I think is awesome about your post, is that you are still positive and didnt get shut down.

Remember, when Mystery started his method, he got shot down hundreds of times before becoming a mPUA.

Keep that in mind and keep going on!

Thanks man. Yeah, not shut down at all. It felt good, to JUST DO IT! you know?

I'm making myself hit the mall today (alone, my wing is busy) and I'm gonna try some more daytime approaches.