I show up to the bar to meet up with some friends. The bar is getting a little crowded by this time because there were some MMA fights in town and this is the after party. It takes a bit but I spot my friends a grab a drink and go sit at the table with them. There aren’t too many HB’s in the place I’m kind of waiting on the ring girls to show up. At a table next to us there is girl that is probably an HB6 a little above average, anyway she is chatting it up with some MMA guy so I assume I have absolutely no chance. I mean I’m more of an offensive lineman type build and after all this guy is a professional fighter and I’m not going to be the AFC fighting for some chick.

As time goes by no ring girls yet. So HB6 is dancing all nasty right in front of me and she has these nice high heels on most of the time. Later on she gets rid of the high heels and is dancing without shoes. I’m a guy that appreciates a nice pair of heels on a lady, so I say, “Where did your heels go.”
She says, “Why are you worried about my shoes?”
I say, “What can I say… I like them”
She motions for me to come closer so I do it reluctantly.
She says, “If you buy me a drink I’ll come give you a private dance with my heels on.”
Tying not to be AFCish is say, “let me think about that.”
She acts like she is all pissed and says, “whatever…” and some other gibberish.
I go back to my table and she keeps dancing for some time. After a while I ask my friends if I should take her up on the offer because I’m kind of bored. They say to go ahead just for the hell of it.
She still there in front of me giving me some side glances so I approach. “I thought about and I think I’ll take you up on that dance.”
Immediately she is gleaming so I’m headed to the bar. She places her arm around mine like I’m escorting her to the bar or something.
We get to the bar and wait a long time because of all the fucking MMA guys are celebrating and the ones that got their asses kicked are drowning their sorrows.
I’m B.S.ing with her and she says that I smile too much. So I’m like “whatever.”
By the time I get her drink she is already dancing with someone else acting pretty Hoe-ish. So I’m feeling pretty stupid right now, but I’m still playing it cool. I put the drink on the table she sees me I point to it and just begin talking with my friends.

It’s closing time and she comes over and starts rubbing her ass on me and downs the drink while she is doing it. I whisper in her ear, “what are you doing tonight.?”
She says, “I’m not sure”
I say, “how about you come home with me.”
She pauses for a bit and says, “OK.”
Then she takes off again. So I’m thinking I’m going to wait outside. So I do and to my surprise I’m not the only one waiting it’s me, the MMA guy and some other Trick ass dude. She comes out and blows the Trick off, and the MMA gets blown off too. So it’s me waiting and I’m thinking, “I got this”
Then out of nowhere some big ass dude that appears to be her boyfriend or pimp or something shows up and he’s like, “come on lets go!”
And like that HB6 is gone.
So I say, “Well fuck you then Bitch!”
The bouncer that has been watching the whole time is like, “yeah what he said.”

I learned that I should have played this one a little cooler. I think I was smiling too much. She was the type of broad that needed to be dealt with a little stricter. Also I’m not sure about if I should buy drinks for girls or not. I’ve got to careful of the chicks that just want the free drinks. Let me know of something that I’m missing on this one. Any advice is helpful.

Renaissance

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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
Wayne Gretzky

So what did you learn;

1. Too always keep your cool.
2. Never buy ladies drinks unless your dating them
3. Be respectfull, dont lower yourself by a: “Well fuck you then Bitch!”

Besides that, good job i guess.

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True communication is communion―the realization of oneness, which is love! ~ Eckhart Tolle

Mr. Shade,

Yeah you're right I shouldn't have been that disrepectful. I'll keep that in mind and no drink buying from now on. Thanks.

Renaissance

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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
Wayne Gretzky

I don't claim to be an expert or anything but it looked like you skipped the essential stages in gaming. You opened which is great but then you skipped attraction and comfort building. In other words, what made you any more special to her than the rest of the guys there? I was nodding my head when you shut her down the first time about the drink/ dance offer but then you came back (a clear dhv) and took her up on it. At this point you hadn't really even talked to her...and by coming back and buying her the drink you basically tipped your hand i.e. "well you're probably the best chance I have of getting some tonight so I'll be nice to you." Never reward bad behaviour. Also, never wait for the girl when you're leaving. Find her...tell her you're bouncing and if she follows she follows. Just use more negs and get to attraction and then separate yourself from the meatheads by getting a rapport with her.

These are just thoughts...as I said I'm not an expert but I hope some of these ideas are helpful. Keep opening bro

-Castle