Okay last night was actually probably my first "sarge fest" at bar/club venues. Didn't really "close" anyone, so don't be disappointed... I learned A LOT last night.
I'm at my place with a couple buddies, and started drinking at an early 6pm.
I have about 6 PBR's and friend gives me 4 or 5 shots. I felt tired from only getting 5 hours of sleep the night before, but Tasty wasn't have none of it... I was going to have FUN. Luckily, all the bars are POPPIN. Full of people.

We drive to the bar scene (about 6 bars right next to campus) and I see hotties GALORE. We go to bar 1, super packed, where my buddies and I sit at a booth and get drinks. It was cool because some asian dude randomly came to our table and totally did the whole "this is my place" attitude and was asking stuff like "so you all havin a good time?" or "you go to school here, juniors or seniors?". Probably asked like 5 or 6 questions, super social, and then told us he's practicing his speech skills or something like that.

We start walking around and I see a few girls that I know. Huge hugs, and grab one of their asses. We're chatting and this is getting my state going and glowing a bit as i'm holding their hands randomly and being touchy. Fortunately, they're with one of their super cute brunette friends. Right in front of the girls, I start flirting with brunette, verbally. I kind of forgot exactly what was said but I was in 100% flow state.. I was flowing so well with my disqualifiers and push/pull (basic flirting stuff) that she was being caught offguard. A couple of times she had to pause and think, as I already had my next "line" in my head.

The other girls watching the interaction were just pumping my glow up even more, because I could sense jealousy as one of them moved closer to me, so I hold her hand. The one who moves closer to me gave me the rest of her almost-full beer for some reason. SWEET. I walk back up to HB brunette who's sitting on a stool (at the bar) and I start gently caressing her exposed/bare back. I hop on the same stool with her for body/body contact, I say "i dont think I like you... I mean I hate you" and shes like "yeah I hate you too", as we're pushing our bodies against eachother. Some dude right next to her started flirting with her so I walk away. After 30 minutes my buddies and I exit the venue.

We proceed across the street to where I had GREAT fun. I was basically approaching girl, set, girl, set, all one immediately after the other. I walk straight to the back patio where people smoke, and verbally open and flirt with one really cute (older late 20's) girl who's talking to a black guy. I open her by saying "hey weren't you in one of my classes?" and she looks interested, but of course I was just BSing. I forgot to befriend the dude she was talking to and he turns out to be really cool. After I shook his hand, the girl left. Rediculous, I think to myself, "am I really this chode? I kind of felt like I cock blocked him, but it was ok.
Then something kind of funny happened, a see a cute girl that was in my english class a couple years ago, and she remembers me. I was super touchy with her and gave her a hug. After a minute or two we both mutually depart.

I turn around and wrap my arm around a girl who was with a couple of chodey looking dudes (skinny, glasses). There's loud music so I start dancing up on her, getting all touchy feely on her midsection. She turns around and we grind for like 5 minutes, which is the first time i've done this at a bar. She loves it, and we're flirting right in front of the dudes. I go back to make sure my friends are still there (just to be nice) and they're just standing there, with their drinking, talking amongst eachother. Go figure. I go straight back to the HB and kiss her on the neck. She giggles, so I kiss her on the lips, which felt slightly off since the chodes were watching. Throughout the interaction, I'd hold her hand and then grab it, she'd grab back, then i'd nicely throw it away. I invite her to a house party and she says "let me get your number", and she calls my phone. Note to self: next time ISOLATE her.

I walk back inside after smoking a few cigs and getting a raging hard on (more so mentally, I was a bit whiskey dick) and see two mexican girls standing at a corner all alone, looking bored. My new opener was "you all look kind of lonely" was a puppy-dog-face look. As I said this, I wrap one arm around one, and then the other. Kind of a side/frontal hug. I get their names, it's SO loud that we're shouting. I try repeating their names and mess up on purpose. I mix their names up. They're giggling and saying "you're so funny" etc. I build so much sexual tension cause my face is literally 2 inches from theirs, as I keep switching back and forth giving them equal attention. This was intense. I then start hugging both of them at one time, so it's one giant hug. One chick was an 8, the other was a 7. The 7 was way more receptive (more outgoing?) and hooking well, so both of my hands are rubbing on her sides/hips. I tell her that they should come to this house party. She pulls out her phone, which is getting all too familiar, and I give her my number. She doesn't call text it... so I make note to self: tell her to call/text my damn phone!!

I turned around, take 5 steps, and see three cute blonde 7 and 8's standing next to the dancefloor, choding around. I wrap my arm around one of them for a sidehug, and say "you all look lonely"...then she starts to slip out of my arm and walk away. Of course her friends leave with her. First blowout. You think I cared? I was walking in the direction they were going anyway, so I was following them. The chode thing to do would have been to wait until the dust cleared and they were gone, then start walking.

I walk back to the front where my friends are STILL choding around, talking to eachother. One gives me his half full beer, and I see a skinny sexy girl walking passed us. I grab her wrist gently and say hey with a smile. She's smiling and somehow we just start dancing. In my head I can't even replay how it went about, but she turns around and we start grinding...in front of the whole freaking bar. Keep in mind this is near the entrance/bar area. We grind for a few minutes, and I notices so many guys just staring at us dance, I turned them into full spectator mode. We stop dancing, and I start holding her hand and touching her arm. I didnt say really anything so she just smiled and walked away giggling.

I turn around and my 3 friends are standing there in disbelief, and I have the look on my face "yeah, that's how you get shit done." I insist that one of my buddies follow me, so we make a loop to the back patio. I start talking to one girl, but she's almost ignoring me, so we keep walking. I arm wrap a girl inside and we flirt for 30 seconds, but I ejected. So at least my friend got to see my no-success approaching.

We all bounce and go to the ritzy, upscale bar where the super hotties linger. I was a bit too drunk by this point, and it was 1:30am. Only 30 minutes left until the bars close. If my memory serves me correctly, I armlocked a girl or two, and just continued walking around the bar. My brain was fading away. I then see a 4 set of cute girls, dancing a little bit, just kind of going up and down. I walk up in between two of them and start dancing, just like the preveious precursors to the chicks I was grinding with earlier. But they just kind of ignored me, so it got all "awkward" and I eject. We leave the bar and head home. Sure I didn't really get closes but I learned so much from this..and had SO much fun. Being physical and touchy IS really the way to get them attracted and hooked. If I did what I used to do, which is just open verbally and not get physical, I would have had a bad night.

I wake up to see that two of the girls that I knew from the first bar had called me a few times at 3:30am lol. Perhaps no more mutual LJBF and I can make something out of it.

I would like to add that it's actually kind of hard to get blown out. Of course it's easier to get blown out when super direct and flirty. If I'm all chodey and just verbally interact, they're more likely to stick around. A few times through the night i'd say "you're cute" right after I open them. I'm becoming desensitized to girls just walking away from me... especially when I can just turn around and start hitting on some other girl. My friend told me that I was groping random girls, which I guess is true, but the thing is... if they're super low energy or kind of ignoring me, I stop. It's all about calibration, reading their reactions and adjusting to them.

Furthermore, I don't ask for phone numbers. I like to naturally lead the conversation or word farts to where she wants my number. She must be attracted to me first of all, then I will invite her some place...and I think it's good to even just say that you're going to some big party and she should come even if it's not true. Her phone will just slip out of her pocket.

Finally, I think this super direct and touchy style works so great for me mostly because i'm good looking (6'1, lift weights, etc), so I already have physical attraction before I say or do anything.