Hey,

Here's my day game from yesterday:

So I went to a big event in my home town, and I dressed extremely well, and had a piece that made me stand out like a sore thumb.

Everyone commented on my dressing, and wanted to touch the merchandise - it was a bit annoying, and there were a couple of asswipes that were dicks about it, but 99% of ppl were positive, and I was basically a pussy magnet.

I managed to get a HB 7's number - she came over from Australia, and was in a group - she was the hotter of them all.

I also met someone that knew who I was (HB 7.5), but I couldn't remember them, only that I had seen them before, and we had a friend in common. She stuck around me, and I was doing some kino and ended up walking around holding her hand - I even popped her nipple back into her dress at one point when her dress came down a bit.

So I get her number, and she starts txting me like a maniac.

I go around to her place to watch a movie with her and her 'friends' it turns out it's just me and her and her best friend & best friend's bf.

I didn't do any kino during the movie, as I felt it was a bit weird (we were at her parent's place, and in the presence of her best friend).

After the movie we all leave, and I give her a hug and a kiss on her cheek. After the first kiss, I feel like she was going for kiss on the lips, so I go in for a kiss on the lips, but then she turns her face, and I get the other cheek (miscommunication?) Anyway, I leave feeling like a bit of an idiot.

This girl is leaving the country in a couple of days for 2 months - she made me aware of this fact fairly quickly. I thought that meant that she would be happy for a bit of fun in the bedroom, but I guess she's living at her parent's place, and wont bring any boys home for that sort of stuff unless they've been seeing her for a bit.

NZ is a fairly unreligious country, and she had a cross necklace, so maybe her family is quite religious.

She's a fairly cool chick, so I'll keep in contact, but I guess the moral of the story here is to really think things through. In hindsight i think I was being over-eager and expecting too much. I should have been observant, and analysed the situation better, and thought of different strategies for different scenarios. Instead I started thinking with my dick and only had one strategy - which left me feeling like an idiot at the end.


I hope this helps some people, I know I'm learning a lot through going through all of this



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I've been thinking about this one, and thought that maybe my first guess was wrong.

Maybe she was expecting kino during the movie, and because I didn't give it, she was pissed.... I guess that she was fine with showing IOIs in front of her friends during the day, so was expecting it during the night? By not escalating, and then going in for the kiss at the end of the night, she felt weirded out, as it seemed too sudden.

She hasn't contacted me since, which I guess means that she's feeling weird about the whole thing - just as I am. I'd like to keep in contact with her so I sent her a message yesterday basically saying that it was weird, but I'd still like to be in contact with her.

I wont be making any efforts to get in contact with her now, as Paul Jenka says 'NEXT!'



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Movies are bad items to be putting in before you've slept with a girl, or at least gotten some hot and steamy snogging/making out under your belt.

The problem with watching a movie with someone you barely know is that there's tension there, you're both sitting in silence at a stage in your relationship when you should be talking and getting to know each other. Instead, you're effectively sitting in silence with a stranger. Both of you are going to feel weird in that setup.

I think you probably did everything else okay.

I don't know if you can salvage this one, might be best to move on.