Hi I am new to the forum....

Haven't been to a club in a while so I went out this past Saturday. Made eye contact with this woman and then walked right up to her without waiting a second. Asked her for her name... I know, not good to express interest upfront. Didn't buy her a drink but talked with her for a while and ended up kissing her and getting her phone number. We have had a couple of texts back and forth yesterday and today and I talked to her briefly on the phone twice but each time she cuts the conversation short.

I feel like there is some level attraction but not enough to get this rolling to the next level. I would like to get her out again but not sure if I should call and leave a voicemail or shoot her a text. I am at a critical point where I could totally botch this up if I say or do the wrong thing.

Anybody had a similar situation? What did you do the next day after you met someone and they didn't completely flake on you and left the door open?

I was thinking about texting her "Have you thought about where you are going to take me out? I am curious to see what else you got going besides your looks..." or something similar.

Thoughts?

BeachBoy123

screw her, next approach

Seriously?

No. Don't just give up that easily...give it some time, dont put too much pressure on her. Just relax and stop texting her for a bit.


also don't think that you must always come in with some of that indirect crap.

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