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PostPosted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 9:34 am 
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hey there guys, i messed up in field a few weeks back, i don't care about the girl but i wish to do know where i went wrong because i have a feeling this is one of my sticking point.

ok I knew this girl from my college, and we were good mates, nothing ever happened between us in the year that i knew her, we were just good college friends, but we would always talk about sex, flirt etc but i never knew about the community at the time and also she had a boyfriend so i never bothered then she just randomly dissapeared from college.

A year later i've changed college its full of chavs, i'm like the only white person there, so felt a bit out of place, and then i'm in hte computer room and turn around lock eyes with this girl. Then turn back lock eyes with her again, and say hesistently her name, she says yer, then she tells me how she saw me in the elevator but was to afraid to make a mistake and say hi to a random person

so we go for lunch together she leaves her tutor group together, then we're in the park generally chatting, she tells me how she's broke up with her boyfriend, 2wks ago and she went out and got drunk and slept with a random guy, and said how the guy was a wanker, and how now she's looking for a fuck buddy, and wants to be single and is not interested in a relationship.

then we engage in some flirting and she says something can't remember but i took it a challenge, so i kissed her then, for 5mins we end up kissing, she bites my lip and says sorry for doing that i say i liked it, we smoke then i take her back to her lesson ask he rif she doing anything tommorow she says no, so i say wanna meet up she says yeah, we'd already exchanged numbers.

Before i leave she says don't forget to put my full name in drafts so you can add me on facebook.

I did compliment her a couple of times, like a complete afc but then she complemented me lots, i also got down her trousers, no foreplay(she didn't allow me she said it was to public) though just felt her arse

Ok so now am on facebook in the evening i ask her if she still up for tommorow she comes up with the lame exscuse its her sisters birthday, and no ones turnt up so she has to go with her sis to a concert. so we talk a bit i act cool about it.

Then the next day she says on facebook, in her status that she's on break so i messsage her saying wanna go for lunch no reply, i ring her once no reply.

so message her later on going (oi where's my returned call gay( she goes (you don't get a returned call because i have no credit). so i message her later saying (am gonna ring you) i ring her no reply, so i message her (hello i just rang you) she doesn't reply hours later, she pissed me of, so i send her a short email (your so blatently blanking me, not kl) and then i block her on facebook, next day i find she's blocked me aswell.

so??
why bother blocking me if i've already blocked you?(childish)
buyers remorse?
bitch?
mind game?
or just not interested?

havn't spoken to her since nor bumped into her at college good thing to


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 10:17 pm 
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Sounds like buyers remorse to my not so experienced ears, things developed too quickly with no real end or perhaps justification so when she reviews her behavior soon after she may feel she was too easy with you and thus 'correct' it.

Either way probably best to give let her come to you before any more interaction is had (if at all) as imo it'll just lower your value.


Disclaimer: Just a newbies two cents


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