So I left Billings at like noon, the drive was chill. I was unshaven and had been wearing the same shorts for a few days and a dirty Rockin Rudys T(Badass music shop in Zoo town if you ever make it there). I figured I would not care about clothes I wear, who gives a shit, if I won't nobody else will also I focused on congruence, everything I say will match w/ my Inner Game AND I will assume attraction (Seriously you can't go wrong with that ever) I had read The Power of Now a lot on my last MCC spike and was really feeling that conscious prescence, that sense of clarity, no past no future, no impediments just me, no insecurities, just my true essence.
The first thing I do when roll in Bozeman is check out the local Borders cuz I am lookin to get in to NLP. I find a couple of books on it entitled "Unstoppable Confidence" by Louis Sayres catches my eye, feel it could be good. I ended up not buying it because whether I buy a book depends on the reviews I read on Amazon.com (OBTW, the book is for real evidently, so feel free to check it out 4.5/5 stars). Well as I am checking it out, I see this HB (7.5-8 I guess). I see she is looking for reference material for a nursing standardized test (Montana State has a huge nursing school) So I use that as my opener and just start going. She is attractive in a sort of hippy-outdoorsy kind of a way (very Bozeman-like). I find out she has been to Australia. SHe had a horrible climbing accident and unfortunately had to return home. We compared scars, hers from surgeries whatnot and me from my d-bag horse biting me on the tricep. I will often tell a girl how much better she is than me at some inane funny thing. One time this HB was really drunk on St. Patty's Day, (My B-day) and I told her how intimidated I was by her drinking ability hahaha(Oh and by the way, getting bitten by a horse is not all it's cracked up to be. Their teeth aren't sharp but their jaws are powerful, I don't really recommend it. Hahaha, back to the FR.) This went on for a while, I negged, I did a little cf, I think I made her qualify and returned it a bit. I even got in a bit of kino, tough as it may appear to be in a bookstore, I just told myself I was going to do it and did. Eventually she took a call and left.
After many sets, including that one, I come away w/ a feeling, a sense that the interaction carried more possibilities than were realized. The reason why no close because of a limiting belief. I honestly believed that nothing would or could happen because I was only in Bozo for one night (I will summarize what I learned at the end).
So after that I go to my buddy's house (let's call him G-sus). G-sus has to go to work at Buffalo Wild Wings. I am going to meet up w/ him later. I make a few calls including a family friend (HB 8.5-9 who I have known virtually my whole life and desire to make my pivot). Eventually I make my way to BWW and G-sus is just getting off shift. We trade insults real quick before I make my way to the bar looking for sets. No good opportunities so I go about establishing social proof. I see a guy who I met randomly at a bar in Billings. So I go up and start talking to him and his two friends. It was pretty cool, at one point,one the friends (Jake or Josh) says to Jerramy (the dude I knew, weird all Js) something about me being a friend of his
a bit of a feather in my cap. So not too long after that G-sus walks up to the bar and says something to this group of three pretty hot blond chicks (7-8.5 or so). Two of them move away leaving an HB7.5 w/ big tits, a bigger frame, a bit of baby fat, (taller than the rest, I am very turned by height, don't ask me why). I was like alright here we go, my opener is something about texting which she was doing, (I love situational openers). We are talking for a while I throw some kino (felt more comfortable doing it at a bar) I think she was a student, I cannot remember details. She says she and her friends are going to some bar for ladies night, I figure we will see them there later. Unfortunately, I find out that G-sus is not such a huge fan of that place and I never saw her again.
WHy no close? Same thing as above, a limiting belief. I figured it was too late. Well that is what I get.
So back at the place, G-sus and I are indecisive about going to a house party or downtown. I really did not give a shit but for the sake of not wanting to be indecisive I say let's go to the house party. G is like no let's go downtown and I am perfectly fine with this (another lesson learned, if all are being indecisive take it on yourself to make the decision, the other people's true feelings will show themselves). So we go down to the Crystal for power hour and G immediately orders some shots (G-sus is a heavy drinker, he always gives me shit for not drinking as much as him since I started w/ PU. I always come back with the line about not needing to drink to have a good time, anyway the dude is a huge shit-talker) G sees a dude he knows and starts talking to him and I follow, establishing social proof. G-sus sees some people he knows from work I am talking to them as much as he is. I bachelorette party walks in and I try and open some of the bridesmaids, but it does not go as well as I would like. Eventually a group walks in of which G knows several people. Three HBs two hotter HBs and one like 7.5, one of those chicks who is not really really hot but hot enough. A little on the bigger side but not fat w/ a nice face One of those chicks who I will probably lose my virginity to. Anyway, she becomes my target and I start going w/ her, I was pretty drunk by this point (Goddamnit G) but this chick is digging me and at point she takes a sip of my whiskey and I say ";you know what it says about lipstick on the rim of my cup" and she agrees that it is a good sign and I say something about what lipstick on my cheek would say but she does not go for this, to which I reply "Oh wait a minute I never said you could kiss me, I was just poiniting out a fact, whoa settle down girl" (The coolest thing was that it felt totally congruent with my inner game) boy was she thrown for a loop. I also did this thing which one my crew members taught me, it is kind of cheesy but I think it a good kino trick, say "Do you know that that the distance from here (finger on her shoulder nearest you) to here (finger on spot behind her neck) is the same distance from here (finger still behind her neck) to here (take hand and put it around opposite shoulder)". (Again totally congruence) some of the dudes around were less than impressed I tried to get fist pounds but they were not having it, they laughed and I did not give two shits. I did it and it felt good, felt fucking great. It is who I am. At one point I froze her out for a bit and she tried to get my attention and I called her out for this (Sort of a neg, but if an HB gives you an obvious IOI, I recommend returning it with a subtle IOI like winking than freezing her out once again.) Just like the rest of the night, I leave w/out a close and w/out pulling her to the Bacchas where they are having a halfway to St. Patty's day celebration so we bounce there for a beer and a carbomb. We try to bike home but my bike gets a flat and I realize I left my phone at the Bacchas, I go back get the phone of somebody who works there, call my phone and realized G has it and that the fucker has driven home so I walk like three fucking miles back to his place with a fucking bike with a fucking flat tire AAARRGGHH!!
(Funny shit: So at one point I go and take a piss and walking back I see this warpig who was in another bachelorette party, coincidentally all of them are warpigs, flashing her tits. I was like wait what the fuck just happened, I shake the image out of my head and go join G-sus and our group. Welll like a couple of minutes later this same hippopotamus is up on the bar topless. Uggh it was disgusting, I think I covered my eyes for most of it but it was fucking as funny as it was repulsive hahahaha)
The next day I leave for Zoo-town at like 12:40, got there like 10 till four. I spent most of my time looking for a place to stay, finally did and went out w/ some of the guys I was staying with. I don't open any sets but instead bounce to the Missoula Club, the Mo Club for short. That was where the chick shit-tested/insulted me about smelling like smoke. My response was weak and I was thrown off. I did get some comments on my cigarette stiletto and that was cool also my clothes got a comment from a HB8 who I had a yoga class w/ last semester but by that time I realized I was really tired (2.5 hrs of sleep the night before) and just wanted to go home and sleep so I did, after watching "Eastbound and Down" LMFAO that show is the funniest fucking thing in the world. Seriously check it out. OMFG The next day I see this HB7.5 in the gas station as I am about to leave, I crack a few jokes and she says that it is good to see me. Yesterday, I try to call her and to my horror, I realized I erased her number. Whatever I added her as a friend on facebook and sent a cf message, so I can get it back. If that ever happens where you prematurely erase digits just ask to confirm that you have the right number.
Summary: Know that there is always enough time and you may never see this person again, also, always fockus on your preferrd end result, because you will do what it takes to get there, all it takes is intent and just setting your mind to it, your mouth and body will do the rest trust me. Just always set the goal and you will do what it takes to get there with the knowledge you have. The more knowledge the more tools you have to get there. I feel there is more to talk about but I just gotta go. Later.
CHAT