| Went to Roxie and met up with double down and morgasmic. Apparently there was some kind of private concert going on so couldn't get in until 11pm, but the crowd was quite good, probably because of the preceding private concert. (some sort of high school reunion with a rising band from the same high school graduates)
Talked to about 25 different sets of people through out the night, including ones I did on the bus stops there and back and outside of Roxies. Talked to literally every single chic in the club, with the exception of a few I may have missed out of bad luck. Left around 1:50am when there weren't any sets left for me to open. And for sure, talking to the hb8s and hb9s are getting much much easier as it gets more comfortably fit into my reality as the more practice I put in. Sure, some sets bombed, some other sets didn't go superb, but I'm having a lot more normal conversations that I would have otherwise gotten blown out of earlier on.
Morgasm was meeting up with some hot chics and some dudes he met before at Roxies, not much of help from me there since when I'm not approaching and just chilling my skills aren't the best. Of course once I get to know people after about 30 minutes of comfort I can come accross a lot better like in most social circle, but some sets I can't really get over that 30 minute barrier so fuck it. Met up with Double Down later to head into Roxy at 11pm. What happened basically was I just left the set so Morgasm can do his stuff. Just got briefly introduced to them on the streets. Later in the club, when I was approaching every single girl, my value increased and got the typical social circle type of attraction going on since they kinda knew me. I was talking to one girl and then two of the girls morgasm was with actually came over to say hi. I couldn't remember who exactly they were so I thought they were friends with the girl I was talking to and I was being all friendly with them giving hugs and etc. and then two minutes in they are like, 'hey, Simon, remember me?' and then I remember 'o, these were the girls from outside, lol.' I can get attrction like that, but I still need to up my game before I can go into those warm sets and pull it off great into comfort and everything, but at least I'm getting there. At first when I saw the group, I was in the nervous mode because I don't get the benefit of being able to try something and walk away if it doesn't work, (that's what I love doing and why I'm an approach machine) but later in the night, even one of the guys came up to me say hi. I think probably cuz he saw me constantly talking to a lot of girls in the club. I haven't done much social circle game and still have no interest in it, but from my limited experience, even typical cool guys find me as an extremely cool person when they see I have no problem going up to random cute chics and starting up conversations, like it's a huge dhv.
Anyways, I'm getting to the point as well where I do a set, get some attraction, and then when I come back to the set later, they actually have a good memory and there's already more comfort built. Once I'm able to consistently get good reactions from re-opening sets, I may be more ready for social circle type of situations if the need comes. Kind of in line of being an approach machine, I really analyze myself a lot through writing my own field reports since writing them in the first places takes quite a bit of time. Anyways, one of the re-opening sets that worked well last night was one I opened on the dancefloor, and then reopened later and the two girls were very receptive to me and even did a bit of grinding with me on the second open.
Also gotta remember to talk a lot slower when I'm talking to cute chics from Mexico who don't speak English that well. I was talking to this one Mexican girl for a good length of time (maybe 25 minutes?) and then Doubledown came by later and talked to the chic as well (she seemed she was soloing some kind of roadtrip and was at the bar by herself). Anyways, Doubledown later told me the chic was having a hard time understanding what I was saying because I was talking to fast. I reopened her later on in the night briefly with "my friend told me you couldn't understand what I was saying because I talk too fast." That was funny.
Other than that, talked to a whole bunch of girls a the bar just one after another after another, did a little bit of street game by myself and talked to a girl at the bus stop for qutie a while before catching mine home. Moving up to downtown in two weeks and that will be pretty cool. Not the best place and can't pull girls for ONS but at least I got my own place and will be able to pull on day 2s or day 3s. I'll be living there for 6 months before I move out to a better place once my web designing business starts up, and I also went to a internet marketing mastermind group yesterday because I just quick school and was looking for a internet mastermind group, and it was awesome that I found a powerful group. Well, I arrived late cuz that's when I found out about the weekly meetings on mondays, and I didn't get to have in depth conversations with many of them, but as a starter, getting surrounded by people who are determined to make money and who already have far more experience than me was a powerful experience I will use to my advantage.
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